[Ask a Girl] Harder?

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by danny132, Jul 4, 2010.

  1. danny132

    danny132 New Member

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    Ok I know this sounds like a silly question, but it came through my mind after something my ex said.

    During sex, when she was all excited and getting close, she said "Slower, Harder" several times.
    Now I feel silly but I have no idea how to go "slower and harder". I mean, if I go slow, it's usually less rough... so whats the deal?
     
  2. Hot Wheels

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    You could always try going a bit slower while pushing a little firmer at the same time......it's not all about speed I guess:)
    Try asking her, or letting her on top so you can see how she moves when she's getting close......:D


    welcome to SF Danny:welcome
     
  3. NewGuy85

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    Yeah ive heard this before too. "No slow down a little. But go harder"

    Its not that easy but i just push in harder. U can make the push kinda fast and hard but pull out slow and pause just a fraction of a second. She never complained about that so it must be what she has in mind lol
     
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    newguy85- yeah i think that's what she meant
    harder is the force in which you enter and the slow is the speed between each thrust, not the thrust itself.