[Ask a Girl] Hard or flaccid?

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  1. ddxxx

    ddxxx New Member

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    its a second question to women. when men's erection, do u prefer the penis is hard or flaccid(soft)?
     
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    Um, doesn't "erection" mean the penis is hard? I don't understand your question.
     
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    i mean most of penises with circumcision is hard when an erection. but the others is some soft when an erection. for example mine is not bending and you cannot move or change its angle so much:) but i saw in porn movies, most of guys' penises are some soft. its bending or curling.
     
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    Rule #1: Don't believe everything (anything?) you see in a porn movie. :lol

    Seriously, those guys have been fuckin' for hours. "Take 22". I'd go soft too, no matter how smokin' the ladies were...most guys can only maintain an erection for so long. Our bodies expend all of of the chemical that indirectly causes a hard-on.

    BD
     
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    I want it hard as a rock. Flaccid does nothing for me. Just hanging around, not useful.. I like a hard dick.....cannot ride soft serve!
     
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    I second FC's advice: what you see in porn is in no way representative of what real-life sex is like.

    Also, the definition of an "erection" is when the penis is hard and stiff and ready for action. Therefore, when the penis is soft it is not an erection.
     
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    I really don't believe it has anything to do with weather you're circumcised or not. It's just depends on the "state" of the erection. Sometimes one can just be unable to reach the full hard on.

    For example if I try to keep it up for a second round after I've ejaculated, I can often keep it erected, but it usually isn't fully erected. Instead it gets "some soft" like you described.

    Like BD said in porn they might have been doing the take for hours. Besides the environment might be also a bit distracting for the performance.. (of course it can be a huge turn on to do it in front of the crew, but it also creates a lot of pressure. I'd also assume that if you've been doing it for years it might not be always so exciting..)

    I've also heard that if you have really large penis, it's harder to get hard as you'll need more blood pressured there...
     
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    Ya can't play pool with a rope!

    BD
     
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    I think they look way hotter hard.....makes you wanna do bad things to them ;)
     
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    I'm fascinated by both lol.