A very long time ago, I made a post here about how I was still a virgin at 27. I had a lot of comforting replies even though there is actually nothing to be ashamed about virginity. Anyways, I lost it since then. To a girl I dated for a few months, but it didn't work out. I realized I'm what people would call a happy single. I love enjoying my own life, doing what I want, not having to answer to anyone, seeing my friends, doing my shit and simply, enjoying time on my own. I don't feel like being in a relationship at all. Whenever I see a hot girl or when I hook up with one, I genuinely think "she's hot, I'd bang her but I wouldn't want a relationship with her". I guess I'm just a guy who enjoys being single. It might change in time... perhaps one day I'll do want a relationship but for now, no, I really don't feel like it. However, I'm not gonna lie: I'm a human. And even though I have a fairly low sexdrive (meaning I don't always feel like fucking), I still sometimes do miss the sex. The purely physical pleasure of sex. I don't miss the cuddling and the emotional part (yeah sorry if that sounds cold), I do miss the fucking. Fortunately, I'm not frustrated. I'm not walking around with a constant need of sex. But still, I sometimes feel the natural urge like all humans do and then what should I do? Jack off is good and all, but ehh, it's not the same as sex. I know what sex feels like now and even if after the first time I was genuinely like "huh, is that it?" and I was probably pretty clumsy, still, it's... different. Try and hook up with some girl at a party or something? I'm a bit too shy for that. I dare say I don't look bad, but I simply don't have the "playa" thing in me. Plus, to be quite honest, I don't want to bother with the whole seduction thing only to have a fairly high chance of being refused anyway. Yeah, I could lie to a girl, make her believe I love her and shit, then fuck her and dump her. Sorry, but I'm just not an asshole. I don't wanna deceive people. I respect women more than that. Friends with Benefits? It's not like you can get those as easily as like buying an apple in a store. What should a single man do, if he's happy with his life as a single and isn't looking for a relationship right now but still wants the purely physical pleasure of sex from time to time? is there anyone who has advice on how to deal with that? Thanks!