Hand jobs and rings

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Benni, Mar 6, 2012.

  1. Benni

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    I wear rings on each forefinger and thumbs -- they are smooth bands, no stones/ridges or anything.

    I had given several hand jobs to my ex ( Mr. 'we don't fit well') and he never said a word to me about it hurting him. I do not grip hard. Then, one day, I received an email telling me that they were the worst experience he had ever had! Instead of 'Babe, can you remove the rings please?' -- a blunt email is how I learned of his horrible experience.
    That ended the relationship for me right there and he just couldn't understand why!! Jeez!

    Anyway, now I feel afraid to do this for the next guy (if ever there is one).

    Would wearing the rings really hurt a guy while giving a hand job?
     
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    Only one way to find out. Start doing it and while you are stroking, ask him if it hurts.
     
  3. Ready2Please

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    I agree but I always remove my jewelry when I am with my man. Sometimes I add spit to my hands to it slid good and smooth. Plus he loves it! :D
     
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    You describe the way I LOVE getting a handjob.
    In your case I would not let this guy ruin things from this point on, obviously if he could not communicate he was not worth the long run for you. The best is if you enjoy pleasing your guy this way you can ask if he'd like without the rings, or maybe he's fine with.
    I'd ask if he'd rather without, this way he doesn't feel on the spot to please you if he thinks you rather keep them on.
    I'm sure you can rise above a guy like your last one ane keep enjoying giving handjobs again. If your guy talks and discusses then you have a smarter partner next time, don't close the door, use your lesson not to repeat being with the same type next time.
     
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    I'm married and wear a two ring set on one hand and a 'promise' ring on another. Both have stones but have smooth bands on the bottom. In the years that my SO and I have been together, he's never complained.

    I actually just asked him as we're sitting here and his response was "No...should it?"

    So, from my experience, nope.
     
  6. Alwayslearningsex

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    As a guy I'llsay the "best" thing for me is nice stroking until the precum comes out, then it's used as the lubricant. Working the lower part of the ppenis helps the pleasure even if you work the head to give the orgasm.
     
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    I know but my guy likes me to spit or use lube. :)
     
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    Just me here, it slides better for me as I have a real sensitive one.
    Offering ideas, others may like. Besides, I love getting worked on to produce the lube. :)
     
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    Nails hurt also, that is when I know it's time to cut them.


    Some like a tight grip.

    For the next guy you should ask him to jerk off for so you can see what he likes.
     
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    I love a good hj with lots of tounge kissin.hj's are underated
    And benni your welcome to stroke me anytime
     
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    There's no way it would hurt unless he had an infection. He's just an idiot making stupid excuses. You're well rid.
     
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    Each to their own.......... If he does not like a fist, try with the fingers and thumb. I can be more sensitive.

    It is a good point tho'. I no longer wear rings but always removed mine when working on a woman.
     
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    I have almost always removed my rings before HJ's. I have done this so that I don't hurt my SO...guess I've never asked him. Good question.
     
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    Thank you all for your replies and comments. :D
     
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    As a guy, I have never been hurt by a partners rings. Nor by my own rings I wear. Seems he is just bitching cause he can. Now, if the rings were turned around that would be a diff story.
     
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    I just don't get why the heck he didn't let you know at the time. Just an hour ago my partner and had a play around before he had to go to an appointment. He laid across my legs as he went down on me and his elbow was pushing my kneecap down. Instead of just laying there and pretending to enjoy myself while he continued on oblivious to my discomfit, I simply said "Could you move your elbow? You're kind of kneecapping me. :)" No dramas, elbow moved, and we both had fun.

    Was your ex too lazy to tell you this, just like he was too lazy to work out how to do doggy? Or was he just trying to be spiteful? Either way you're way better off without him.
     
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    Apparently, he was too lazy. Thanks, I am better off for sure. :)
     
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    I love receiving a handjob with some rings on. I ask my girlfriend to wear them for me every time. I get so turned when she wears them and I take much pleasure from it. I told her about my fetish and she enjoys doing it. Anyway, I just thought I would say my bit and I guess every guy is different. For me, I very much prefer a woman to be wearing rings.

    -This thread was the reason I made an account on here.-
     
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    I've never noticed my wife's wedding rings hurting. Breaking up and complaining about sex in an E-mail? Sounds like not only a jerk, but an ungrateful one at that. I'm thinking it's his loss, not yours. Be thankful you found him out now, not five years later, and he's gone!
     
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    If I'm giving a hand job to someone other than my husband I like to use my left hand and let his cum flow down on to my wedding ring.
     
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