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Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by bigballs69, Aug 28, 2007.

  1. bigballs69

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    when a girls jerking you off is it easier to cum if using some kind of lube or something?.. i cant cum if its a dry hand job and i was wondering if that would help
     
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    sure it will help. Haven't you tried it? makes it feel more like real sex.
     
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    It probably depends on the individual, but for me a little lube makes it better. I'd suggest a silicon lube if there's no oral involved and you won't be needing a condom. It lasts longer and doesn't get sticky, but it's probably not pleasant for oral, and I'm not sure that it's condom safe.
     
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    I like a lot of saliva from the girl
    as a lube.

    Hiker
     
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    Saliva is best when no other is around. If its dry I like her to just move the penis skin up and down with her hand instead of rubbing her hand up and down, too much friction.
     
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    I prefer without the lube, I don't like when it gets messy (unless its her saliva,) I think it is because if there isn't any lube on it I can still ask her to go down on me :)
     
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    I prefer a dry hand job myself. This means more pulling on the skin and less actual rubbing (which can get painful), but it feels better without lube.
     
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    Without lube but saliva is always welcome.
     
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    I don't really care, I'm uncut so it feels good with or without lube. I'm so lucky :D

    A really wet HJ/BJ via the chick's saliva is VERY hot...
     
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    i use my sylivia when giving a handjob to my man. he finds a dry one a bit painful and the friction makes it irritable. i suppose a bit of lube would work but sylivia is cheaper, quicker and hotter.
     
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    My penis is circumcised. I need lube.
     
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    Spit works great! :cheer
    ~Bella
     
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    I can cum either way,with a woman using some type of lube or her dry hand.Never had any problems that way.
     
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    I find that I like just enough lube to keep me from getting dry. Too much lube loses the effect, and I actually prefer saliva, as it keeps it from getting dry, but I can still feel the flesh on flesh and have some sort of friction.

    If only they made a lube that felt like saliva but didn't dry out as fast :)
     
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    I use saliva, simply because it can be "applied" without breaking the mood. Thorn has used KY, and it keeps it moist a long time. Personally, I don't mind giving him a blowjob, even after a KY handjob, as I have found the taste to be very sweet.. almost 'sugary'! :)
     
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    Just one advantage of being uncut. I must have saved thousands on lube in the last 60 years!:):)
     
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    Must be lube. Saliva is an excellent sub on the fly. A dry hand job sounds like something out of a bad comedy movie.
     
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    Saliva's the best for me. I don't know if I'd really want to try actual lube or anything, because I don't know how it'd taste for her, but if she's into it, then okay.
     
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    I'm not a fan of lube, myself
     
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    Looks like a lot of people here like saliva as a lube.... It's fine for me during oral but I'm not sure about her using it during a hand job. The idea of a girl spitting on my penis is kind of a turn-off for me.