Hand job

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by On_Top, Jun 7, 2007.

  1. BananaBill

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    Yes, I'm a lot more aggressive with my cock than any woman has been. I tend to cum quicker when I'm jacking off as opposed to getting a handjob. I don't use any lube or lotion on myself, just the sliding skin.

    Now when a woman is in charge, I prefer her to use some kind of lube or lotion. That slick feeling and sound of my curve being stroked is mesmerising! I also like it to be more of a massage of that area mixed in with jerking. After a half hour or so of that massage/stroking mixture, I'll shoot such a big load that I've been tempted to go weigh myself. I don't cum nearly that many shots by myself.
     
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    My wife uses baby oil to sometimes. We can it Oil jobs :D
     
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    K-Y warming works really well!
    Especially when she slathers it all over my balls too!!
     
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    We use avocado oil for a LOT of things. Great for your skin, works inside her and me without yeast infections, and has no taste at all.

    I did recently get a couple of silicone toys though that said not to use oil of any kind on them. I thought oil was fine as long as you weren't using latex condoms? Is it bad for silicone too?
     
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    I will have to try the avocado oil. Thanks for the idea ! We are fond of coconut oil too !
     
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    Well that sounds deliciously enjoyable to receive!!! :D:D
     
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    I think first off, one of the hottest things or what really helps at the start of the handjob, is she's excited and really wants to. Secondly, if she's a lil naughty, than that's a plus, at least for me. Would reduce the chance of her getting tired and it taking too long :rolleyes::D. Both people being in the right mood, makes for the whole experience to be enjoyable for both, an not a long drawn out , where the girl is just like " will you just finally cum, wtf..":confused:

    But some ladies do have amazing technique, and I'd def prefer a girls touch over my own. If a girl knows you, understands all the sensitive spots, and she's good at it, you're in for a fucking hot handjob.

    Yes, it feels complete different , as we all know what our own touch feels like.

    Personal preference is for her to really enjoy it, an make sure to explore n touch more than just stroking the shaft. Add some creative hot lil naughty whispering, and you will feel it building up very quickly , and ready to blow for you.:eek: From there , I'll bite my tongue from admitting anything naughtier. :rolleyes:
     
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    Oops, I spoke wrong - APRICOT oil. I just looked it up, here's what we buy. The individual 16oz is on sale for $8.09 right now, and is for some reason always less than the 2 pack. It's an "add-on" item on Prime, so if you're buying other stuff it kind of counts like a prime item:

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00028MLG6/

    Coconut oil will have some sugars in it from what I read, and a lot of women react poorly to that and end up with yeast infections.
     
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    Ok. Thanks for the correction.
     
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    They're totally overrated. I can get my hand doing what feels best for me. Her, not so much. That's why she has a pussy, mouth, and ass!
     
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    Well, for me & my wife, there is much to be said for enthusiasm! She can really get after me, cause she loves to watch the cum fly! And, I like to watch it fly too, especially if it's on her!
     
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    Not really overrated when done oh-so-right.
    Nice long edging done with the right technique, stop as close as possible, several times, out of breath, her hand coated with precum.
    THOSE WERE SOME A-M-A-Z-I-N-G handjobs!!!
     
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    YES! It's a skill!

    :)
     
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    My wife is very talented at giving me hand jobs. She uses coconut oil on me and starts out real slow. Then she slides her thumb over the head of my dick and sort of makes circles, like a tongue would. As I get more excited, she starts a rhythmatic squeezing on the up and down strokes until I can't resist thrusting to her squeezing. When I cum, sometimes I wonder if I'm going to stop squirting. Very intense!
     
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    My wife can give a great handjob
    When she's not in a hurry I love it when her fingers also rub my balls and rub under the sack
    She'll also pull and rub my nipples
    I'm talking toe tingling shoot about over us cumshot
    I'm hoping soon I can get her to lube up and slide a few fingers in my ass
     
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    Unrefined coconut oil is the way to go...my personal favorite
     
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    If no lube available just have her spit on it a couple times
    If your hard and loving it and she's really into it and she spits on your tip it's hot
    You'll cum so fast
     
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    I call them rub a chubchub, hand to hand combat, whack and Jack, oh and you can reach me at
    Lendsa Hand
    55555 Nuttingwood Circle
    Cockle OhighO
     
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