Hand job

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by On_Top, Jun 7, 2007.

  1. On_Top

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    For the guys...

    Does it feel different when a girl gives you hand job versus when you give one yourself?

    And what do you personally like in your hand jobs?
     
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    Honestly, hand jobs are tricky and I pefer giving myself the handjob as opposed to my SO

    thats how I feel
     
  3. Steel

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    Usually it’s the “angle of attack” that causes issues… guys get use to “their hand” and the way they hold it. When your woman works it at the right angle… look out!

    Women don’t develop “pimp hand” endurance like men do….ya’ll get tired quick! :D
     
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    When I give my SO a handjob it's a matter of finding that "sweet spot." I mean guys are so used to masturbating that they often prefer doing it themselves, plus I agree Steel that we're not used to it and our arms get tired after a while. ;)
     
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    i have only had one good hand job. I am uncircumsized and most girl go way to way to hard at first, but it can be taught and it is worth teaching.
     
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    Like Puss said, all depends if the girl can find that sweet spot. I've had time where a girl stroking my dick with her hand felt better than a BJ, and other times I just couldn't seem to get off from her stroking.

    That time, I ended up just dry humping her till I blew my load :D

    Yet another time a girl jerked me while i was inbetween her legs kissing her... and jerked me until I blew my load on her stomach.

    Depends on the girl I guess!
     
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    Our arms get tired, cos we don't get as much practise at it as you blokes do ;)

    How many guys use lube when you masturbate?
     
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    I use condoms, i still feel depress and guilty after having self induced orgasm for some reason.
     
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    I do... warming oil... feels almost as good as the real thing and cuts down on piston wear. :D
     
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    it feels so much different then when I do it. Having someone else grabbing you and slowly or even quickly stroking you off, watching your face and listening to your pleas to finish off. Once my gf held me down when I told her I was about to cum so I could not stop her. I was at her mercy. she held me firmly in place and stroked even faster and faster until I blew all over her hand. It was so hot!
     
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    I've never used any lube when masturbating... maybe it's because I'm uncut though.
     
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    its 2 completely different things
     
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    I don't need to use lube because I'm uncircumsized but I like it when a girl does - cuts down on discomfort. The best is when she gets me to lie back and takes her time warming up the hand cream before making smooth motions all the way up and down. It's totally different to DIY ;)
     
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    Cant get away with it me, feels ok at first, not to sound horrible but it gets boring
     
  15. Bluesy

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    LOL. Just wondering, what sort of oil do you use to keep that, ah, piston in tip-top shape?
     
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    Water soluble warming massage oil….. even better for full body rubs! :brow
     
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    Any particular brand?
     
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    KY makes some good stuff..... first you get your hands all nice and slick. Then you start with the neck and back massage… It really gets good when it’s the body to body massage and everyone’s covered in oil.
     
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    And easy to come by, too! Goodie, I'll have to keep that in mind :)
     
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    If you need any help figuring out how to use that oil let me know… I’ve got talented hands.