Hand Job Techniques

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by college_girl, Oct 9, 2009.

  1. college_girl

    college_girl New Member

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    Ok so I'm trying to take it slow with my boyfriend. Basically for now, the most I'll do is give him a hand job. I'm new to giving hand jobs and I want to give him spectacular ones because that's all he'll be getting for a while. Any one have any tips or techniques for me?
    Thanks
     
  2. Hot Wheels

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    You could try searching some of the tube sites for "handjob compilations".....:jerkit
    But, like most things sexual......theres no end of variations in handjob/blowjob techniques
    See how he reacts when you suck, cup, stroke or lick his balls or touch his ass??
    Would a prostate massage offend him??? .... or send him into orbit:woohoo
    You could always ask him to masturbate in front of you and observe his methods:jizz
    Why don't you just ask him what he likes and have fun taking it from there.....:brow
     
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    Fortunately, I agree with what is stated above. If I think of anything else, I will come on back.
     
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    One tip - Don't ignore the balls.
     
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    I have never given a handjob, except to myself I guess lol. But I kinda enjoy sometimes when we are in the shower and my girl's behind me, kinda giving me a reach around.

    But, definitely don't ignore the balls...as mentioned.
     
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    I just always get timid as far as the balls go...:-( I'm warming up to licking a little more aggressively while blowing but as far as just a hand job, I'm always scared I'll be too rough-no good, sometimes a mood killer or I'll be too gentle/easy-no good, can be distracting "what is she doing down there? GRAB'em already!"

    It so comes down to the guy and his preferences. I hate giving handjobs as the main attraction SO boring. I'd much rather be running my tongue up and down the shaft and feeling him throb in the back of my throat....BUT I guess I get the whole "waiting"/"taking it slow" thing....
     
  7. Barbwire

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    Here's a reply I posted on a similar thread some time ago:



    Hope it helps.
     
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    You could well compete with Nina Hartley's better sex videos, CL :phat
     
  9. BinghamtonNY

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    I love handjobs....I think variety is the key.....and women with long nails give the best handjobs IMO. That's why I enjoy just sitting back sometimes and having my wife use her hands on me....mmmm...mmmmm...GOOD. :)
     
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    I love getting them. I prefer grabbing just under the tip, but not on the tip. And not towards the base of the shaft... theres not much sensation down that far. Oil/lotion is good. I love when a girl uses a twisting motion instead of just up and down.
     
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    Twisting motion fooooor sure...I just get numb if the whole time its just up down up down up down...My advice honestly is as you doing it ask him to show you him self how he likes it. That helped a lot with a certain girl I was with she became a pro before 2 long. Oh and its not a stress ball too many girls I'v been with just act like they need a death grip on it and that is so not cool. A relaxed firm hand is how it should be, and when he says don't stop that means keep doing exactly what you doing with that movement, and pop in no time.
     
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    Exactly. I think barely gripping is worse than to tight. It makes me think they are not into it or something... not real sure.
     
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    I like the tongue up and down the shaft suggestion lol I like the way you think:eyes hmm
     
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    I've never had any complaints...:blowjob <--that's semi unrelated, I just haven't given head in a while and talking about it got me all...twitterpated as it were.
     
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    firm grip with the wrist parallel to the shaft. Ie the porno pre money shot handjob. I hope that makes sense, but what works for some will not work for others but there is no way to know without trying i guess.
     
  16. Barbwire

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    No having a penis, it's hard for women to appreciate just how sensitive one can be and just how tight to grasp it. It is the same for a man when he's manipulating a clitoris.

    I think it's most helpful to have my partner "jerk off" my wrist, so I can feel just how tight he wants my fist on his cock.
     
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    I wish my dick was as big around as your dainty wrist.:p
     
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    Don't use so much lubricant that it's so slippery you can't get enough friction. I love having her drag her thumb right down the middle of the bottom of my shaft when she's stroking me with a firm fist.
     
  19. Dragon_Fire

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    I think good communication is the answer, every guy is different and what worked for one may do nothing at all another.
     
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    Use lube, do a twisting motion, vary the speed, talk a bit dirty to him, massage his balls gently...lol well thats pretty much what I do....and it works for me