Question: What are you doing back there? Looking for berries or fondling your hole? My SO is in the shower, I walk in to use the toilet and the look on his face is :eek (he lays in the tub as the shower runs) usually I suspect he is jerkin' off, and I do see his hand way below his sack...so now my dirty imagination has thought "maybe he is cleaning his ass muff or he is playing with his hole." He wants to do anal on me badly, but I just can't handle any of it I'm too tensed and not turned on enough for it. But he REALLY wants to do it badly, also he had joked awhile ago when his coworker said how it felt good when his gf puts her finger up his ass when she gives him head...and my SO laughed and joked about how gross it was. I am gonna ask my SO himself if he is curious of anal play :shifty and if he has been doing it secretly. However he does have a furry arse...so the poor guy just maybe clearing shit uke Guys? Any experience in this out coming? What do you think? Maybe I'm over analyzing...and how should I ask him?