Well I’d consider myself a good looking guy although I never did before and was always shy and thought I’m not good looking as a teenager but I aint had a big problem with the females in my life so far, I’ve had a couple of girlfriends and came across many and so on so I have no problems what so ever at the moment except for now. Thing is I’m starting to lose my hair, and the worst part is that I’m only 21 (started to lose it at 20), which really stresses me out when I go out and see all these other guys with their great hair cuts and styles… I really miss having normal hair and styling it, it definitely gave me more self-esteem when I had hair and now I’m so insecure about it. Friends tell me that hair is not a big deal and that its not always about your hair, but I think that’s bullshit cause I’m their friend plus cause girls usually go for the looks first and I’m ashamed to go out now with my hair, I always wear a beanie or a hat or sometimes just shave it off during summer. Does anyone have the same problem, or do you think it’s a very big problem? What do you think I should do, should I let it bother me that much or just not care about it no more? My girlfriend at the moment doesn’t seem to mind I think, which surprised me cause she is 18 and I would have thought she would want some hunk with some crazy looking hairstyle and all that, as I said I aint bad looking and the hair problem hasn’t made me look ugly exactly but definitely not as good as before and I’m worried it will effect my future relationships after this girlfriend if we break up one day.