had an experience but don't know what it is

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  1. gaddy

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    :) well, my gf and i had an experience last weekend. we visited our friends in their new home. they are already married. with me and my gf there was also another friend. so there was 5 of us. we were drinking and listening to music then watch some movie. when the movie shifted to porn then thats where it gets interesting. my gf observe and whispered to me that our couple friends are doing something behind the pillows in their sofa. hehe:D i just said not to mind them. but she kept on glancing which made them stop for awhile. i think they can no longer take it so they excused themselves and went to their room. so we continued on drinking and drinking until the other girl got really drunk that she fell off her chair. and she puked haha :D we brought her to the bathroom then she just fell asleep. our friends heard the laughing and commotion outside their room that the guy went out. i asked for help to carry our friend to the sofa but oops she vomited there so there's no way she could lie their so we brought her to the room where they had another sofa. we layed her there. in the room our friend (the wife) is just covering herself with a blanket i made a comment "clearly they were having sex" haha my girlfriend elbowed me then we proceeded to the door. then we heard the wife say you disturb our lovemaking i was almost coming hehe when i looked they are already fucking with her legs raised high and my girlfriend is gigling and sitting next to our drunken friend. well to shorten the story my gf and i ended up having sex. first in the floor then we joined in the bed. surprising is we exchaged partners. hehehe on the other side of the bed i was doing it with my friend while on the other side her husband is doing my girlfriend. hehe i dunno if what i feel is wrong but we definitely enjoyed it. can you already call this an orgy? i think this experience is the most bizarre of all my experiences in sex. maybe even better than 3sum. but thats just my opinion :)
     
  2. tr0n

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    Maybe that's cool with you but I wouldn't be cool with having someone else fuck my wife or girlfriend. Just my preference. I would probably definitely watch the other couple though!
     
  3. SexyScorp

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    """"but I wouldn't be cool with having someone else fuck my wife or girlfriend. Just my preference"""".

    mmmm....a passionate man for sure....I would love a man
    that felt this way.....

    "leave her alone she is MY woman"

    mmmm......very nice

    :)
     
  4. Reyes

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    Yep, I'd love my wife to be like this TBH, and in fairness I think she would participate if a similar opportunity er...erose. It's a mutual experience, it's certainly very sexy and doesn't hurt anyone else so where's the harm? I have to say frm personal experience, I think if both parties are equally involved in something like this and it's trated as a 'shared' experience it can be a very rewarding experience indeed...

    Lucky guy gaddy...
     
  5. Kronnie

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    Yes to some it is a great experince , for others not .


    you view it as a sexual act and something you would glady have your loved one share with another guy.

    Me personaly i wouldnt wish to hsare my lover with another guy at all.

    I would how ever be totaly cool with her being with other females if she desired that.
    ( i wouldnt even need to be there )
    Just not with another guy.
     
  6. JJLove

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    Yeah, my lover is my lover...

    stop looking at my girl like that!:yell

    unless of course, like kronnie said, if it were another girl looking at her.
     
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    A guy I work with in his early 40's just signed the divorce papers last week. They have been swingers for a few years and he would like to watch his wife get screwed by other men. His wife told him she woke up and this is not a good marriage and wants out. I think something like this would always end on a bad note. Be careful where this takes you.
     
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    melicious The Old Maid
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    Back on topic, and to answer the original question....it's called swapping. Perhaps it could be stretched and called an orgy, as you did have sex with both of the ladies. As for an opinion on it, I won't give one, as you did not ask. ;)
     
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    Haha, I feel the same way you do. I never want to even picture sassy with another guy, but I actually encourage her to go out and "experiement" :brow . I don't know why, but I wouldn't consider this cheating (or rather, it wouldn't feel like she was cheating on me). All I ask is she lets me know what she's doing.
     
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    Oooo i have that ^.^
    HE wont let anyone touch him
    or touch me ^.^ love it!
     
  11. Indulgence

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    Honestly, I can't see from you're point of view how this is okay?
    From this experience you're going to open her up to a new world and maybe, cheating.
    And being the guy that I am, wonderful, caring, loving, and I would do anything for my girlfriend. I wouldn't cheat, ever. And she is just as loyal, I am probably the most jealous person here. But hey don't let me stop you're fun, that is just my thoughts.
     
  12. loveit247

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    Hey, swapping/swinging works wonders for some. It worked for me in my last relationship. (that ended over something completely other that sex). It is not fair of anyone to say that they can't see how it would work or how they think it is wrong.

    The OP shared a story, quite and erotic story. If all concered were comfortable, then there is nothing wrong with that.
     
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    Hey loveit

    Would you swing with your present partner...and if not, would you mind
    explaining why.....?

    Just curious....thanks......:)
     
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    I think I am with Tr0n. I could never physically let another man touch my woman. Nor would I touch another woman myself but I do so love reading these kinds of stories. I would probably be ok with my wife and I watching another couple. The idea of that is so hot.
     
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    That's called swinging/swapping. More common with couples in their 30's and 40's I think, looking to spice things up. There are some big web sites devoted to it.
     
  16. gaddy

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    thanks for your insights. i appreciate what evryboy has posted. i've been very busy an no chance to do that again. i don't like to plan about it hehe :)
     
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    well some people are emotionally attached in different ways.. some people don't mind what he did, others wouldnt even think of it. I personally don't think i would, but it's not because she's MY woman, i just feel uncomfortable about it
     
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    Nice. I wish I had something as good to talk about. Maybe some day.
     
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    We didn't become swingers till we were over 50 and our love life had slowed down and we wanted some new excitement in our lives. Neither of us had sex friends and it was time and we wanted to do it together.
     
  20. loveit247

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    Nope, not now at least. If the situation arose and we were both comfortable then maybe. Right now it is not something I feel like doing. I hope that makes some sense.