Guys, who likes to cuddle after sex?

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  1. scorpio_nymph

    scorpio_nymph New Member

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    Males, do you enjoy post-sex cuddling? I’m trying to see if it looks like the majority of men like it or don’t, so who likes it and who doesn’t?
     
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    A little bit right after but not long
     
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    I like a little bit afterwards, yes.
     
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    Absolutely!
     
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    for a long time...........
     
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    it depends on how badly I need sleep :-(

    I love cuddling after sex, but I like being able to roll over occasionally and stuff.

    one of these days I will perfect the art of escaping from spooning, buggering off to the bathroom and then going back to cuddling without waking up the spoonee (or accidently elbowing them in the face for that matter)
     
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    In general, I'd say it's a definite yes.

    It depends on the sex and the time. A morning quickie or sex right before we go out doesn't generally lend itself to post sex cuddling time.

    After the act it's usually like "Um.. We better go." after we are layin there inside one another for a minute. We both make a run for the master bath, clean up, then return to bed and lie there for a while.
     
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    I usually do.
     
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    haha i love it. it calms me down and also makes me want it more depends on the day
     
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    I do even without sex!
     
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    I have no experience myself, but from what friends have said (this coming from girls) most of their S/O's don't tend to cuddle, it seems weird not to -- isn't the whole point to be romantic and love the other..
     
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    Love it. In fact, I'm all for snuggling at any time. Sex or no sex I just really dig intimacy, being close to someone.
     
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    after cleaning up really quick, cuddling is nice. especially so that when you two spoon, you can still rub her nipples and finger her a bit while kissing her neck. try it and the rewards shall come!
     
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    I dont mind cuddleling but il do it only with someone i have feelings for. I recently had sex with my ex and she wanted me to hold her afterwords but i choose not to. One for the fact that i have no feelings for her anymore and two i didnt want to lead her on.
     
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    I love to cuddle or snuggle with Hotbabe after hours of fucking. After all that we do I need to rest for a bit.
     
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    im not sleeping with my boyfriend but after oral sex he turns into a cuddle monster, sometimes he wants to cuddle a lot longer than i want to.
     
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    I like to cuddle but I can't fall asleep when I am cuddling so I have to roll away.
     
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    Yes, I love cuddling after sex, its the best part. It enhances my post-orgasmic bliss. We rarely have sex before sleeping, it is usually morning or daytime, so we cuddle before rising for the rest of the day.
     
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    I'm a woman but i actually don't like cuddling after sex. The guys I have been with seem to prefer it to me!
     
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    It depends who I've had sex with. I love to cuddle with my current partner but there have been times in the past when I have just wanted to bolt as soon as it was over:eek:utahere