know this is a different one..but my relationship is kinda weird.i can orgasm whenever, wherever i want...i masturbate frequently, through sexual and non sexual methods :uhh: but my bf just doesnt.he doesnt masturbate, which i find VERY odd...and frankly unhealthy..he doesnt agree with porn, thinks its demeaning for the people, especially women in it...as he does with bj's...he wont let me do it because he thinks girls shouldnt have to, and apparently they dont work anyway! and nothing much else gets him going!!he gets hard ok...but then i cant touch him with my hand, not even a stroke, cus it turns him off (its not just me ...)he says its the same with every girl. and often, sex will take ages...longer than we have to spare (!!) so i'll have had multiple orgasms, gone made pancakes, had a nap, got the T-shirt...and he still wont be there..sometimes we have to give up, with him not climaxing! feels really crappy for me..and i get kinda guilty too.i dont get it...is it a normal thing for a guy to be like this?or should i actually be worried?? lol..and any tips to try get him off, without my hands or mouth touching him would be greatly appreciated!