[Ask a Girl] Guys that don't like toys

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  1. macker

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    Ladies- is it common or do you know of men who prefer you to NOT use toys? Even together? My gf was telling me that her ex did not like to use toys on her! This blows my mind!
     
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    I'm not a girl the (last time I checked) and while I am pleased that she uses toys on herself, when we are together I prefer no intrusion of inanimate objects.
    Tried a WE vibrator and I preferred it more than she did so my statement above is perhaps not so hard and fast!
    Bit by wit ;)
     
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    I don't mind if she uses toys when we're together but I'm not necessarily going to use a toy on her.I think the attitude on toys similar to the attitude on masturbation and pornography, as long as it is used as a supplement towards the main event then there shouldn't be any issue. I think the problem comes in when a person is unable to orgasm or be fully sexually satisfied without that supplement. now for women that might not necessarily be fair because I do know there are a fair amount of women who are unable to orgasm without the assistance of some sort of sex toy. it does make me wonder what woman would feel if a man was unable to orgasm with them and instead needed to use a fleshlight or a Tenga Egg.
     
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    Diesel didn't like toys; Shyguy does.
    To each his own.
     
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    I have purchased toys for women and used them on them.
    They realized that they loved double penetration.
     
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    To each his own, you're right. I guess I just think of it as enhancing the act, not replacing me haha. Hard to imagine not enjoying them!
     
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    We use toys, I use toys but he doesn't use them alone although I'm planning to get him a fleshlight.
     
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    I had a bf who hated it and a few friends I know who hate it. None understand why I would need toys if I have a perfectly good man to take care of me.

    It's caused many an augment because the logic is severely flawed.
     
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    Exactly. I'm happy with my manhood, but no one needs to tell me that I can't do what a battery powered toy can do haha! And I'm perfectly happy to use whatever I can to please my woman. Interesting that there are so many against the use.
     
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    And that's with a perfectly good man! Just imagine where you'd be if you had only an adequate or "okay, I guess" level guy. :p
     
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    I love using toys with Mrs. . What's not to love?!
     
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    I don't know why blokes don't like their women using toys, never understood it. I've never had a problem with it :) watching miss FBBG squirm around when the magic wand is on full power and is being pressed into her clit is a sight to behold :)
     
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    My ex was really anti toy, to the point that he thought he could blackmail me by amongst other things going public on me having used them. My OH is much more broad minded.
     
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    Blackmail? Wouldn't most people just assume he was the odd one, not you? Glad you've found a better man!
     
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    Exactly, but he couldn't see what ridicule he'd be setting himself up for. He was the one with the hangups and not me.
     
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    Sounds like you're better off
     
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    My guy has no problem with toys, and uses them on me quite often.
    He just gets off on watching me be pleasured.
     
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    I understand what you're writing, but, as you know, women who have problems to reach orgasm aren't so by choice.

    My man already had problems to cum. I spent a long time sucking him the way he loves it, nice and very slow, licking his frenulum, etc. He'd get close, but not orgasm. There's a certain point you have to stop. The thing that worked for him then was to masturbate alone, fantasizing about a work colleague.

    I was just happy he could orgasm at all. He can fantisize as much as he wants. For all I care, he could fuck her. I just want my man to be happy and chase his happiness. sexual and otherwise.
     
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    I've bought myself a toy and offered one to my man, but he's not into it.

    It's just to have some variety. We're good at what we do, but we're always repeating the same stuff. I crave something different, sometimes.

    But I think he's warming up to the idea. Very slowly.
     
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    Isn't that fun, turning him on without even having to touch him. :)
    And then touching him...let the party begin. :D
     
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