Guys over 40; ever had hard time keeping up?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by JuicyB, Oct 21, 2006.

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  1. JuicyB

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    Recently I had gf, Carolina, who was really hot to trot! Taurus, and really into sex! She was 20 almost years younger than me! We liked a lot of the same postions and techniques, but at my age, an hour long marathons everyday I just can't do! Maybe every 3 days, yes. She would squirm around in bed and get restless. I saw I had 2 choices:

    1. Feel intimidated and inadequate and get on a bummer.

    2. Be honest and find a do-able solution. We discussed it frankly and figured something cool out! On the nights I really needed a break, she'd masturbate herself while I sucked on, and caressed her boobs, and kissed her. I worked on the rest of her body, neck, hair, tummy, all the places she liked to be touched while worked her clit with her middle finger! And this was fun and exciting for me too! We also found it fun that i would finger her G-spot while she did her clit. There's something about the brazen desinhibition of a girl maturbating herself in my presence with me wathcing that stimulates the hell out of both of us! And it gives me a chance to catch my breath!
     
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    I am 48 and I am married and we have sex in various ways three or four times a week. A lot of the time it is morning sex on a weekend or before work. Other things happen from time to time, outdoor sex, a little bondage and discipline, a little role play.

    But really and truly three or four times a week for however long satisfies both of us. So no, I don't have trouble keeping up.
     
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    How old is your partner?
     
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    We've had a great deal of drama in our lives during the last few years and at one stage things were looking a little sad in the "keeping up" dept.:poke
    But then my missus got me onto these little blue pills and I tell you what, I havent had woodies like this since I was 20:slong :woohoo
    And they last for hours, wife is now very happy woman, and if wife is happy, then whole house is happy;)
     
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    They have pills for this now ;)
     
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    Hey Juicybrucey it sounds to me like that you have sex better under control than most 20 year olds. You are using plenty of techniques to keep up. Congratulations!
     
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    Tx 4 your encouragement! I think humilty helps sex to happen! Being honest and just doing the best possible! About these blue VIAGRA pills. I've heard they can cause eye damage! Have any of you guys checked up on that?
     
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    That's a possible side effect.

    I was going to read up about it....

    but the type is too small.
     
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    I have a 45 year old wife
     
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    I remember when I was a kid my father told me if I kept touching myself Id go blind:jerkit
    So I decided to just do it a little and wear glasses:brow
     
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    Plus one thing , it isnt just older guys that can have difficulty maintaining an erection
     
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    Yes I have that problem now,but the doctor says that it's due to the medical problems that I have.
     
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    At 40 I honestly have noticed no change in my sex drive or ability to maintain an erection. I probably don't masturbate as much as I used to in my younger days but that's more because I don't have the time. (Or, it could also be that I have more sex now than I did at 19.)
     
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    Never had any problems (48). Maybe the sex drive is not as great as it was when I was in my teens but now is more 'quality' than 'quantity'
     
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    No problem here at 49.
     
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    I'm 53 and have been experiencing problems maintaining an erection for several years. I've been told it is due mainly to my meds such as blood thinners and 2 different blood pressure tabs. However, I have tried Viagra, Cialis, and Lavitra.

    My overall fave is Lavitra and have had great results with it. Cialis was a joke! Nothing happened. Viagra made my dick not only throbbingly hurt but when I orgasmed, that hurt as well. Lavitra, so far, has given me nothing but pure satisfaction and no problems.

    I might add that most ED meds can be quite expensive around $12 per pill and prescriptions are required. You can sometimes get free samples just by asking your doctor for them. If you're like me and you use Veterans Healthcare, you may just get your hard-on pills for free. I am!
     
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    I'm 68 and I have no trouble keeping it up with masturbation. With my partner it is almost impossible. I think the world of her but a 70 year old woman is not a sex object. (Neither am I) I can understand why older men in high places get caught with prostitutes. If I could afford it I would. My body just will not react the way I wish it would with woman my age. I still masturbate at least once a day unless I'm working too much and am over tired. :(:(:(
     
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    I have my good days and bad days, but I can satisfy her even when little willy's being lazy. Viagra works, but when we're spontaneous, there's not always time to wait for it. Other times it works fine without it. All in all, we still have good sex. I don't perform as well in the morning as I do after I'm up and active for a while. Viagra makes me see blue and over sensitive to light. When the world turns blue, I know I'm ready to rock and roll.
     
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    No Trouble Yet!

    I'm 59 and my wife is 57. We have sex 3-4 times a week. Once a month or so we have some role play fun doctor/patient and may take some photos or do some video recording. I also shave her on the weekends. I've been doing that for about 30 years. She has a beautiful pussy! I've had no trounles yet.
     
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    no problem although i don't sleep great so can be tired at bed time but can usually cope and have longer sessions weekends
     
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