[Ask a Guy] Guys is it true?

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  1. Always_Almost

    Always_Almost New Member

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    guys i was just wondering, is it actually true that its hard to find a girl who knows what she is doing when giving head or a hand job. I've read and heard about guys who say only a select few actually can give good head... i was just curious if this was true so who better to ask than men themselves lol :blowjob
    I mean i was feeling really horny last night and i gave my bf some really good head, he made a funny face and says "how do you know how to do that?" like its not normal and then says "i hope this mood lasts" i mean its not that hard all you have to do is find sensitive spots and work on a few all at the same time it drove him crazy when i put his balls in one hand and kind of tickled/stroked under them with one finger and rubbed/stroked the 2 most sensitive parts of his head with the other hand with a nice firm grip, i swear he was shaking at one point :D
     
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    Sorta like they say about pizza, even a bad blowjob is pretty good. Maybe I've been lucky. Hand jobs are a different story, I'm uncut so I've had females be a little too rough, but after an "easy now" things usually get better.
     
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    That's not to say some aren't a WHOLE lot better. I mean like eye rolling California shaking good. Then some are just tremors
     
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    Just like anything else, there are those who are good at something, then there are others who could get a a gold medal in the BJ Olympics.

    If he is telling you that it is good.. then dont stop what you are doing.

    If you are trying to find out if you are good or great.. then you are going to have to go about this in a scientific manner so as not to corrupt the data.

    Let me think about this for a second..

    We will need 10 women and 10 guys. That should give us a good average of where you rank.

    Each guy needs to be blindfolded, so that they wouldnt know which girl was giving him head (eliminating any visual favortism) . Then, each woman would get 5 minutes with each man, after which the man would then rank her performance from 1-10.

    After all the participants are finished, we tally the scores and see where you are.

    I think that is really the only way we can honestly say for sure..
     
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    Its all preference... like kissing just depends on what you like, I've had girls that get me to cum orally in a matter of minutes and some that couldn't at all, and depending on who they were going down on would determine how good they are.
     
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    Always Almost- I'm not a dude, but I do about same thing you said and I've never had any complaints. Only compliments. So I guess there are bad ones out there. We are just good I guess. Lol. Glad you asked the question tho.
     
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    The only bad blow job is no blow job.
     
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    lol im just curious i thought his reaction was funny and it got me thinking about this
     
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    honestly it sounds to me like he might have been surprised that you actually knew how to give a blow job even though your a virgin.
    I would most definitely take it as a compliment thoiugh. has he had a BJ before?
     
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    Nope, there are blow jobs and then there are BLOW JOBS.
    Some girls seem to be naturally sensually aware as to what feels good and others just do what they have heard about or seen in pornos in quite unfeeling ways.
    Same with hand jobs.
    I've had some silky delightful ones and others that feel like being mechanically milked like a cow. Both achieved ejaculation but one is a painful relief whilst the other pure bliss.
    As in any human endeavour there is a spectrum of individuals; some are naturally talented, other learn to be good, some remain mediocre and then a few who never seem get it right.
     
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    It's true some don't have the know how to give oral or handjobs, I had been on the receiving end, unable to orgasm even if all pumped up because I was stimulated the wrong way, overstimulated or desensitized.
    Sometimes the only way to finish me was between the breasts or I go hand over hand to have them bring me back, hard work I tell you, and a few times it didn't work.

    The main thing is when you hear a guy say you got the right technique, DO NOT CHANGE it.
     
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    Some girls just have more talent then others.
     
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    I don't think it's hard and if they are not doing what you want just tell them. You're mouth is also for talking
     
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    I don't understand how a woman is actually able to do it poorly. Unless she's chewing on the dudes junk, how bad can it actually be?
     
  16. My husband says I'm reallyyyyyyyy good. Idk. I just do what I think would feel good if I had a dick. haha
     
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    Well, it could be bad if she was doing something irritating and just keep on doing it. My wife hasn't had that problem with oral, but she does do that with her unrestrainable desire to pop any zit she sees.
     
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    Maybe he was just trying to boost your self confidence with words by telling you that stuff. Like you said it's not hard to give a bj. My gf practiced on me for weeks before she found the right motions. I don't think girls are bad at it. I just think they need to find what works for that particular guy. I know it sounds shocking, but not all cocks react the same! lol
     
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    He probably wants it again.