Guys how long do you last in bed? girls how long does your partner last in bed?

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  1. lovo23

    lovo23 New Member

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    hi there guys/ girls how long "after" foreplay do you last penetrating with a girl?

    when you are done with the foreplay...how long do you last or can last going at it with a girl?

    why is it that everytime i finish witht he foreplay and then start f_ing my girl i only last like about 4 to 5 minutes and then i ejaculate....

    how do i get better and last longer when it comes to penetration?

    should i keep on practicing? will practice really help me last longer?
     
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    There is plenty of help for this on the web and I'm sure we can give you plenty of answers here. My first advice is to try a different position. I can last forever with my wife on top or in rear entry positions but for some reason when I get on top there is a certain way my wife thrusts her hips up while clenching her muscles that makes me come no matter what.
     
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    Hubby doesn't last long in most positions, 5 minutes maximum usually, unless I'm on top.

    I've been told by a few guys that they can conrtol it, by slowing down, changing position etc.
     
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    With my wife I usually try to cum as quickly as possible because she has a very small vagina and sex for to long hurts her. But in the past, if I wanted to go longer they make some gels that numb your penis to sensitivity so that you can last longer, as well, wearing a condom can help to make things last longer. If neither of those interest you, try alternating between fucking and oral sex, when you are close to cumming, pull out and mess around with other stuff until you"cool" down.
     
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    It's all about stamina...if hubby and I haven't done in a week,then he will only last 5 minutes (or some cases 5 seconds:D)
    But if we have sex everyday,he builds up endurance and can go a lot longer.
    Sometimes he masturbates in the shower before we do it,like an hour or so before,and it helps him not cum so quick when we do it.
     
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    5 to 15 with a good hard fucking.
    15 to 30 with a slower pace.
     
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    I'm glad you gave a happy face instead of a sad face for the 5 second thing. I can't tell a lie. Been there done that.
     
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    awsome this sure answer my question
     
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    I'll let ya know

    LOL,yeah I'm sure most guys have.I don't take sex too seriously though.
    Last night hubby and I were doing it and someone's car alarm was going off and it seemed like every thrust was in time with the horn sounding and we both just burst out laughing...
    I don't just look at sex as time to get off though.I just enjoy that time with him all around so it doesn't bother me when it is short.

    And I know we can always try again in a little while:brow
     
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    Oh good,hope it helps:)
     
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    Yeah we had horns sounding once when my wife was sucking my cock...wait...that was traffic because the light turned green and I didn't go. LOL
     
  12. ninja08hippie

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    5-15 of real hard fucking
    20-2hours at a slower pace
     
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    with help (levitra, viagra) I can go until she's completely done. without I might ejaculate in less than 5 minutes..10 tops.
    the comments above are my personal experiences and are not an endorsement for pharmaceuticals. lol..
     
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    Well if your erection lasts Hopefully she's done in 4 to 5 hours or you'll need to consult a physician
     
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    I haven't got a lot of notches on my bed post but there was one girl with whom I would only last about five minutes - very hot and very long foreplay (about 1 hour)!

    What surprised me, and made me feel a little better, was when she said that she liked foreplay and post-orgasm cuddling with me more than actual penetration. I didn't entirely like the answer but I was happy that she was happy...
     
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    Dude you should average about 20 mins a position and be sure to mix it up to keep things fresh, also talk lots of sh*t while your pushing her over the edge. Watch your breathing and if your getting to exciting pull out and give her a treat until you are ready to go back in for more action.

    And don't believe the hype when a chick tells you that they love the cuddling more than the stroke. What she is really telling you is that you haven't given her those multiple orgasms yet.
     
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    Calling bullshit on that part, been with many women?
     
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    lol.. no my abdominals would give out b4 then. when I was newly dating my abs would be killing me days later.
    I'm not as energetic as I was, but then we'd go for around 45 minutes.
     
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    A small price to pay for good sex
     
  20. gphine

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    30-45 minutes.