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  1. ctown75

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    had sex with someone that wanted to have sex with you and for the ladies has a guy ever turned you down[be honest].

    I have a friend that was dating a woman he only liked a little,she came over one night striped naked and was ready to go,but he told he he could not do it and she needed to get dressed.

    I took out a woman years ago that had some serious self esteem issues and wanted to have sex, but I just could not do it.
     
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    Only when my GF has really made me mad! She'll try to use sex to make up for what ever she did to p**s me off. I only turn her down if she tries this too soon, I eventually come around and let her make it up to me! Otherwise, I've never had the misfortune of having to turn down sex. If a lady needs it, I'm here to please!
     
  3. Joe

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    Yeah, I've turned down a couple lady "friends" who wanted to be more than friends, and also an ex shortly after we broke up. She didn't want the relationship to end.
     
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    A few times...One time because there was just not enough liquor in the world, and the other because I just couldnt...
     
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    I've never been turned down. One guy should have turned me down though (or I should have turned him down, it was mutual), because it was pretty bad for both of us (we were a little too drunk, and not quite drunk enough...awkward!). I've turned a few guys down though.
     
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    I said no once and regretted it - it would have been a wild time!!! It was her birthday and she was pretty drunk. We had only dated a couple of times and I wanted to be the "nice guy" and not jump her like some horny high schooler. It backfired. She felt rejected and got pissed and told me to leave :eek. I never made that mistake again!
     
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    My first gf wanted me to have sex with her. I declined because I wanted my first time to be a little more special and intimate.
    Now, I always accept sex from my wife unless I'm way too tired to perform correctly.
     
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    Sometimes you just can't. Some girls just want to, but I just wasn't into them so I just wouldn't. Masturbating is better if you know you wont enjoy it with a certain person.
     
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    Yes. This girl I was friendly with in High School just came up to me at a football game and flat out asked me when we were going to have sex, giving me this weird intense look and everything. She was cute, but I wasn't that attracted to her, so I was like, you and me? We're friends. Then tried to treat it like a joke.

    After that she seemed to dislike me. I guess she didn't like that she had completely thrown herself at me and I shot her down, but I often got random girls turned on who told people they wanted to have sex with me.
     
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    On episode that come to mind is a number of years ago when we were getting ready to move into our present house. I was in the garage of our old house and the next door neighbor gal came over to talk. She obviously had a few drinks and wasn't real steady on her feet. I know she and hubby were having some kind of problems and she probably had and any sex in a while. She was sure flirting and throwing the hints around. I know I could have lifted her short skirt and taken here right there but I didn't. Never saw her again either although we only live a few blocks apart.
     
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    A few times late and night when I just wanted sleep.
     
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    Many years ago I had a woman friend much older than me attracted to me and she wanted to have sex. We were good friends but I had absolutely no attraction to her. I feel the age difference of about 20 years, the fact she had a daughter who was close to my age, and the fact she was a 'headcase' were the main reasons for me not being attracted to her. So after a year as friends in a moment of weakness or pity (to this day I do not know which one it was) we did have sex, one time. The experience for me it was not enjoyable and kind of deterred me from having one night stands.
     
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    Honestly ive turned down TONS!!!!

    I was a virgin until not way to long ago.

    The reason being i was turning them down. I've had SOOO many offers....and i will often turn a girl down if she is totally drunk....and im sober enough to notice.
     
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    Hmmm...well, I had an offer for an affair with a hostess at a restaurant a while back. She was a hot little Asian-American girl...she gave me a Christmas gift and then essentially invited me to her apartment. I had to say "no" because I'm married and wouldn't cheat on my wife. If I had been single, I would have trampled other customers on the way out the door.

    I had an experience at a strip bar where things started to go a little too far. Essentially, the stripper was about to just hop on top and start doing me in the private couch dance booth. I said "We better stop and just call this a dance!"...again, I wouldn't cheat on my wife AND in this case I really wouldn't want any...um..."little surprises" that I can't get rid of, if you follow me.

    There's others, but those two immediately came to mind.

    BD
     
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    Wow...you've really turned things around, Pride. Not too long ago you were posting about being worried that your GF wouldn't do you, insecurities over a prior BF of hers, etc. Now, you're getting tons of offers AND screwing for hours at a time. Atta boy!

    BD
     
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    There are very few times I actually received offers, but once when I was about 17 or 18 I was shooting pool and a redheaded chick started hanging around with my friend and me. She was okay looking except for a bad case of teenage zits. She started telling me, "Hey man, if you want a woman, I can give you what you need." She told me that about 5 times, and I was like, naw, babe go on now, I'm busy. At the time, I was afraid she might be polluted or something. Now I'm more like... What was I thinking!? In retrospect, I probably did the smart thing, it could have been some kind of robbery setup, which didn't occur to me until later.

    Then there was one that I shouldn't have taken, because she was polluted. Let that be a lesson about easy gash.:puke I'm much better now though.:D

    I occasionally think of all the girls I could've, should've made moves on. Damn, all the pussy I could have had if I'd known what I know now.:cool
     
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    Ditto that. :D
     
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    I've had creepy old guys (who were most decidedly NOT attractive) ask to buy me stuff, when I was a teen. That always gave me a really cold shiver...I mean, what are they thinking?
     
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    Heh, heh... would you like a piece of candy little girl? :dgrin
     
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    I ain't so little anymore, Joe. :phat ;)

    But it can be a little unnerving at 13.