Guys, have you ever done older gals?

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  1. JuicyB

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    My first year in college, when I was 19, I had a red-hot affair with Kathy, my 36 year old English lit professor! I was shy as hell, so her initiative really helped me enjoy myself. She dug my young, muscular body, and her patience, good listening ear, and general appreciation of me really helped my self confidence. But maybe my case is a bit unusual. What do you guys think?
     
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    My first time I was 21 with a 35 year-old I met. That first time was indecently easy, and my sexual confidence started on a high note. As we know, women in their thirties can be very attractive if they look after themselves, and they are often sexually confident and experienced by that age. Our times that followed were better until we had to go separate ways.

    Maybe our two cases are unusual, as I think most stay within age groups. We men are supposed to be the sexually adventurous ones, the initators, but how do we learn the art of pleasuring our partners and making the most of sex for ourselves? Although relationships are about people, one way for a man to learn good sex is to have an older and more experienced lover.
     
  3. Thorn

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    I once did a 53 year old. Like yesterday! :eyes

    But she was 6 years younger than me at the time. :lol
     
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    When I was 21 I had an on -off-on fuck buddy relationship with a 45 yr. old woman....she was pretty shy and I was the aggressor.....yeah, like I minded!

    Then when I was 29 I started seeing a woman 8 yrs. older than me, for 2 yrs. we had some really hot sex.........she knew her body and what she enjoyed and knew how to please me alot......it was fun while it lasted.
     
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    I have had quiet a number of older women as escorts.(does that count?:p)

    But seriously, the few older women that I have had sexual relations with(and no money has changed hands) have left me with some wonderful memories and a few pointers too. :brow
     
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    in my mid twenties I had a string (4-5) of older "friends" most in the late 30's to mid 40's. I love older women. They enjoy sex and are not afraid to show it.
     
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    Now.... you guys know that I'm watching this thread with intense interest!

    So far? I'd say us 'older women' are a sensual power to be reckoned with. :brow
     
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    Yes, I agree whole-heartedly, but I am not biased! LOL
     
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    Hey, I'm 20 and I'll agree....FC and Rose are sexcellent women...Hopefully I'll be that endowed with sexcellence when I grow up :)
     
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    Women in Western society are still subconciously constrained by the sexual double-standards that reached their peak in the ninteeenth and the first two-thirds of the twentieth century, coupled with the overall prudishness that we have in the West about sex. This means that it often takes decades for many women to shed those constraints and perceptions, only reaching their sexual potential from their mid-thirties onwards. Up until that age, most women have enjoyed sex but they haven't often been sexual agressors, or even fully communicative about their needs, wants, desires and fantasies. This double standard still exists in terms like 'slut'.

    I had the pleasure of travelling to many non-Western countries in my younger days, and what surprised me was the younger women I formed relationships with (aged 19-20-21) were as sexually confident, forthcoming and experimentative as close-to-middle-aged women in my country. This was a revelation to me, and it was also a real-life example of something I had studied just a few years previously. Although these young ladies were marvellous sexual partners, I recognised that the significant cultural differences between us would make it hard for us to be a life-time couple as in marriage. But these young women (all of them) certainly opened my eyes to just how sexually voracious women can be, and the tragedy of Western prudishness over sex.

    Can anyone guess where this prudishness comes from, and why a Malaysian, Thai, Chinese, Hong Kong or Korean girl would not suffer from the same malady? Can you guess what the difference really is?
     
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    Rose, you know us youngsters are watching you with intense interest! :dgrin




    That sounded kinda creepy didn't it.
     
  12. Thorn

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    yeah, HR. The "youngsters" part for sure!

    Sorry old man, I coulden't resist. :rofl
     
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    I would have to unconditionally agree with that statement. ;)

    BD
     
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    Being in my early thirties, this comment (no matter how innocent it was meant) kind of makes me want to find you and beat you to a bloody stump...

    Sorry I'm not always this violent, but I'm pretty crabby right now LOL
     
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    I would just like to take this opportunity to say: Daniel Radcliffe, if you're reading this thread and thinking, "Oh bloody hell, I'd love to get with an older chick", please PM me.

    Thank you, that is all :D
     
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    I have done three older women in my younger days. The first one was a relationship that lasted for about a year. She was Japanese and was a graduate student. I forget how much older she was I believe she was 5 - 7 years older. Not much of a difference but nonetheless she was older than me.

    The next one was a real 'psycho' who was at least 20 years older than me and luckily it was a one off situation.

    Final one was a friends with benefits situation that lasted approximately a year. It ended when she wanted to move the relationship to something more serious but I did not have the interest in being anything more than a friend with benefits.

    Unlike most of those who have replied I am one who can say it was an experience nothing else. I do not believe I became more sexually adverturous nor do I believe I became more sexaully confident. Given the experiences I do not know if I would do it again. The sex was good and the friends with benefits could get extremely wet. However we I never clicked on an emotional level with any of them so in some sense there was something lacking.

    For me I prefer younger women as they are still have a passion about sex and my wife is younger than me by almost 10 years.
     
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    Its the person not the age

    I think lot a lot of things it comes down to the person,years ago when I was in my twenties I had sex with a woman who was in her late thirties and she was very repressed and would not even let me give her oral.I am now Married to a woman who is 13 years older then me and we have had great sex for the past 19 years and we are still going strong.
     
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    'Amen"!

    Was a 'Realtor" for Many yrs, starting about 19yo.
    *Many listings listed were from 'Old'
    (when 19, anything over 25='Old') women who:
    By word of(about my talented;-) Mouth
    wanted Young 'Stud' `attention`.

    'Education Begins' w/eXperianced 'elders. :cool
     
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    4got to metion ^:

    'Old' gals (in general
    Give *Much BETTER Head!, +
    they Know Much better how-2 give sufficient
    attention to the Balls. :D