Guys giviong hand jobs

Discussion in 'Adult Personals' started by Seth42, Apr 10, 2017.

  1. whybother

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2015
    Messages:
    6,006
    Likes Received:
    9,872
    Gender:
    Male
    You are correct!

    FWIW, I have no desire to touch any cock other than my own.
     
    sensless likes this.
  2. Barent

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 3, 2015
    Messages:
    1,711
    Likes Received:
    10,388
    Location:
    New York (Couple)
    Verified:
    Photo
    In gay bars in large cities, perhaps 90% of the men have given handjobs to other men - but even in that environment there is still a reasonable possibility that the statistic is too high.
     
    whybother likes this.
  3. Cappy_Dick

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2011
    Messages:
    2,446
    Likes Received:
    3,011
    Gender:
    Male
    I don't know about into maturity, but data shows, depending on the source, that between 37% and 70% of men have had sexual contact with another male. Most commonly stroking each other off. Boys will be boys. When they look at porn, their cocks come out. One will usually suggest "I'll do yours if you do mine". Back 70 years ago, when jerk off fodder was commonly the underwear section of catalogs and upscale women's magazines, the 37% was probably close to correct. Now, with hardcore video at their fingertips, I believe a majority of boys are buddy jerking during the time from hitting puberty, to when the girls actually start wanting to play. I'd fathom that about 40 years ago, when I was that age that it was 50%, or better, as sex magazines were more easily obtained and passed around. However, what hasn't changed is that past this time of life, most guys (the majority) that don't go on to identifying as bi/gay, will NEVER admit that this ever happened. The stigma still perpetuated in society against male same sex contact, perpetuates the denial of just how much it happens.

    xx
     
  4. whybother

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2015
    Messages:
    6,006
    Likes Received:
    9,872
    Gender:
    Male
    Links to those studies please. I see repeated references to the 37% found by Kinsey and replicated by his colleagues, but nothing significantly higher than that.

    As I continue to hijack the thread. <<sorry>>
     
    #24 whybother, May 31, 2017
    Last edited: May 31, 2017
    sensless likes this.
  5. Cappy_Dick

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2011
    Messages:
    2,446
    Likes Received:
    3,011
    Gender:
    Male
    I don't save links when I read up on something. Google "same sex experimentation", "straight guys who have sex with each other", etc, etc. I can tell you that the 37% came from the original Kinsey studies. The 50% came from being an adolescent in the 70's. The 70%+ comes from modern internet discussion and data found on personal impromptu google research. I became curious about this after reading about the growing trend of older men who's partner's have lost interest in sex, or passed on and have become curious to re explore their youthful experimentation, or try something that they might have, but didn't have the opportunity/skipped the opportunity over morality at the time. It's extremely difficult for the average 50+ guy to find a new female sex partner.

    xx
     
    petergozinya and sensless like this.
  6. Mikeylicksit

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 3, 2017
    Messages:
    238
    Likes Received:
    231
    Gender:
    Male
    I'm 100% sure that I've never touched another man's cock. I don't have data to prove it, but am pretty reliable.

    Now girl cock, that a different story ;)
     
  7. Mitchell75xx

    Mitchell75xx New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 17, 2017
    Messages:
    1
    Likes Received:
    2
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Bath UK
    Have given lots of handjobs and received lots from other men. Very exciting
     
    billy55 and Seth42 like this.
  8. smooth69

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 18, 2017
    Messages:
    211
    Likes Received:
    287
    Gender:
    Male
    I'm a straight guy but I think I could give a hand job it would be a turn on to do a mutual hand job with someone
    I think I'm just extra horny and would like to try some new things
    How do you go about finding someone ?
    Hey can I stroke you off yeah right !
     
  9. woodster

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 24, 2014
    Messages:
    843
    Likes Received:
    783
    Gender:
    Male
    Verified:
    Photo
    i know. i get your point and agree.
     
    Joboo6 likes this.
  10. Naturally Free

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 10, 2017
    Messages:
    41
    Likes Received:
    106
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sydney Australia
    You'll never want to understand....because your paradigm can't be questioned.
     
  11. Barent

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 3, 2015
    Messages:
    1,711
    Likes Received:
    10,388
    Location:
    New York (Couple)
    Verified:
    Photo
    Do you still maintain your earlier assertion, "90% of men give hand jobs to men"?
     
  12. BeBop

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 26, 2016
    Messages:
    2,948
    Likes Received:
    4,717
    I still maintain that 100% of men give handjobs to men. (Those men being themselves.) :p
     
    #32 BeBop, Jul 20, 2017
    Last edited: Jul 20, 2017
    MOBiGuy, MariaMaria and Barent like this.
  13. SexyFantasyGirl

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 5, 2015
    Messages:
    28,440
    Likes Received:
    126,865
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    USA
    don't see why it matters how many men give hand jobs to others men
    ,and I see other in the world wrong with it,
    ,
     
  14. Naturally Free

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 10, 2017
    Messages:
    41
    Likes Received:
    106
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sydney Australia
    An informative post and well presented. Informative posts have a depth element. That is, a reader to identify an awareness of how the writer feels during writing - from his consciousness of self. You have given us that, thank you. For just one example: "Never identify/admit due to stigma in society."
     
    Joboo6 likes this.
  15. Naturally Free

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 10, 2017
    Messages:
    41
    Likes Received:
    106
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sydney Australia
    I feel my two posts on the 31st May clarify and explain my position in this discussion, and why I said 90% of men give hand jobs to men. I still maintain that, as identified from those two posts and the detail enclosed within.
     
  16. Dave_nz

    Dave_nz Member

    Joined:
    Dec 6, 2015
    Messages:
    39
    Likes Received:
    107
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New Zealand
    I think nearly everyone has a bit of bi in them, its just how they have been brought up as to whether they try it or not. Hormones have a lot to answer for
     
    Seth42 and cook74 like this.
  17. Bigbisi1983

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 7, 2016
    Messages:
    134
    Likes Received:
    135
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Uk
    I definitely would if given the chance
     
    HardWood82 likes this.
  18. Joboo6

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2015
    Messages:
    216
    Likes Received:
    278
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Southeast USA
    I think 90 percent may be high but my first opportunity to receive one I gladly returned the favor. At a young age three different guys jerked me and I reciprocated. The first guy and I continued to do it, the others I didn't touch again. I'm thinking maybe 50 to 60 percent given the right opportunity.
    Opportunity I believe is what it's about. He and I certainly didn't want anyone to know so trusted him. I must admit that after a couple of years of no contact with him an opportunity arose after drinking too much beer. We went oral then. Kept that up about 5 years, it was just so easy and convenient. None of our friends knew and we had done it since 7th grade till we were 23. After that every now and then I would meet some guy I had an urge for to maybe revisit but only moved on two.
    It was nice and I was always a little surprised that I really enjoyed sucking him, probably as much as being sucked.
     
    Lkmccr likes this.
  19. daretobare58

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 14, 2017
    Messages:
    208
    Likes Received:
    290
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    United States
    Verified:
    Photo
    I dont really care about the stats and numbers. Yes, when I was younger, myself and some friends mutually masturbated with each other and jacked off each other. Been a long time and reminised about it many times and hope to maybe someday have it happen again.
     
    Nakedwalker likes this.
  20. Lkmccr

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 28, 2017
    Messages:
    1,128
    Likes Received:
    1,401
    Gender:
    Male
    i too had similar experiences when I was younger. I have acted on it since
     
    smooth69 and daretobare58 like this.