Guys - First Date Question

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  1. SexyDiva100

    SexyDiva100 Member

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    I had a first with a guy that I really liked on this past Tues night. He took me out for a wonderful dinner, we took a walk around the city (midtown NY) and ended up back at his hotel. We fooled around and I spent the night with him. When we started fooling around I said, "So I guess this means you want to see me again." He said, "You think?"

    I texted him the next day to thank him for a lovely evening and I said that I would like to see him again......he texted me back that he enjoyed my company as well that the we would see each other again....he said
    "We will do this again."

    Before I left in the morning we fooled around again and he told me that his next project would be in the downtown area......and closer to where I lived.

    So you think we'll see each other again?

    I've guess I've had to learn the hard way not to be too trusting, so I'm not trusting his response. Would like a guys POV.

    Thanks !
     
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    Did you know him well before the date or were you both strangers?

    How did you meet him?

    You said his hotel. Is that implying that he is visiting the area?

    Not enough context to make a accurate decision.
     
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    I met him online,

    we were strangers before we had our first date,

    he does live in the area, he was in a hotel in midtown because his clients wanted him to be closer to where he was working on a project for them.
     
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    It seems like you might be hearing from him again but also take into consideration that online dating tends to be a little more casual.

    I wish you the best of luck though, VR.
     
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    Ok....Thanks, appreciate it !
     
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    Yep. He more than likely only wants nsa fun but he will track you down again