Guy's Do you find older women a Turn -On?

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  1. Eli

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    Ever since I was young I always liked older women. When I was 38 I dated a beautiful redhead who was 54.I have to say the sexual part of our relationship was Excellent!!! We could fuck just about any where. Do women get more horney with age?? What do you think???
     
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    In my case it depends a bit on what you mean by older I guess.
    When I was a teenager I had a strong tendency to fall for girls in their twenties. Not surprisingly they were not interested :D. I guess I never had a thing for teenage girls. Now that I am in my thirties, I still like some women in their twenties, but also definitely some who are well into their forties. I suppose it has to do with maturity.
     
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    I think people, not just women, get more in touch with themselves as they get older. As with most things in life, experience is a good thing .
     
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    What about ladies liking older men?

    Sorry I don't mean to derail...I've been thinking of starting a thread asking this.

    As for me....I wouldn't hook up with an 18yr old unless he was really mature for his age...older men are MUCH more interesting and have MUCH more to offer in many ways.
     
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    There is something to be said for experience, to be sure (for both men and women). :D
     
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    This old dog learned a few new tricks in his 40's .... For sure. Was lucky to last 10 mins when I was in my 20's...now almost 50 and have learned complete control....I just needed lots and lots of practice..lol
    But more importantly than that , I learned that the most important thing about sex is being able to communicate about it with your partner...doors just flew open once that happened...putting fears and insecurities aside is a great aphrodisiac
     
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    I know this is geared towards guys, but I'm with the other ladies in this thread. I find older gents very appealing. I have not had an opportunity to get with anyone much older then myself, but it is something I truly do want to experience.

    I know quite a few men in the prime age with which I'd like to tango, but alas, I'm a stubborn pain in the ass and don't do the meaningless sex thing. *shrugs*
     
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    Older men and women have a lot to offer in so many ways. They are more experienced sexually, but also they know what they want and know how to communicate!!

    Mature men know how to treat women and know what makes us tick. Huge turn on :)
     
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    Feel free to "communicate" with me and slutty anytime, X.
     
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    Well Ive been "communicating" loads recently but alias falling on deaf ears lol

    and further advice xeniadraven most appreciative....

    x x
     
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    I have had a lot of guys who are on average about ten years younger than myself, approach me and confess they find older women appealing. I'm mid-30ish. I have even had them as young as 18 try it.
     
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    Communication is key!!
    I doubt deafness is the problem :tagteam
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    I going to step it up a peg or two regarding the communication front what would you recommend for a successful out come :eyes

    x x
     
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    Establishing trust. As soon as you trust that person to not hurt you with the information you've given them ,( and vice - versa) things will open up
     
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    Many thanks 12 BB :)
     
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    I know it sounds cliche'd but its so true. When you allow yourself to be vulnerable, that's exactly when your relationship will feel the strongest. IMO.
     
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    I not only get turned on by an older woman, I married her.
     
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    No! No! No! No! No! No! Any older than me and they're dad or too close. I'm 73. Well 76 might be ok!
     
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