When I make love with my wife, I always worry that I'll be able to satisfy her and not lose my control before we actually have intercourse. Once in a while I think about just letting go, like when she's got a hold of my weiner and it feels soooo good - I try real hard to make her feel good and sometimes I think I'm getting the short end of the stick . . so I sometimes think, why not let go and enjoy the feeling that I try to give to her . . yea, it would be messy and maybe she'd get pissed but it's supposed to take two to make love, right? Any thoughts?