Guys, can u give me some tips 2 give good fellatio?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by katygirl, Sep 18, 2006.

  1. katygirl

    katygirl New Member

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    I absolutely LOVE giving my partner a head job and he loves it as well.
    I'd like to hear from other guys with some tips as to how I can make it better - there is always room for improvement!
    At the moment I:
    • twist my hands up & down his cock as I suck
    • suck and lick his balls
    • let him cum in my mouth
    • use mouth only and run my fingernails up and down his legs
    What else can I do to vary the above?
    Any ideas would be appreciated.
     
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    (pulls up a chair) :popcorn

    Do you put lube on your hands? That might be a nice addition.
     
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    You've said the acts you do during the course of oral sex, but you haven't mentioned much about the emotion you put into it.

    My gf can take my whole cock down her throat as well as lick my balls at the same time. It's a sensation that makes me feel warm and fuzzy all over, but the moaning, and desperation on her face showing me how badly she needs my cock in her mouth is much more intense. Sometimes she'll be ravenous for my cock. She'll caress it, lick the shaft, kiss it on all sides, bite, etc...might go fast might go slow, but her enjoyment of it through the sounds she makes (moaning, slurping, talking) makes it that much better.

    In short, if you don't already, try to make him feel good emotionally about giving you his cock...

    -Emt
     
  4. Rose

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    I agree. A really good blow job involves more than just the mechanical aspects of form. Just like when you are fucking - you can involve your whole being, all your desires and passion. Transcend into his spirit. Look at it as 'making love' to him with your mouth.

    Stare into his eyes, tease him, talk to him, smile up at him - let him know you LOVE sucking his cock!
     
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    Too true. Staring into their eyes is apparently a big turn on for most guys. ;)
     
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    bingo on the emotion of letting him know how badly you want his cum/cawk. Just dont make it fake. Actually want it.
     
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    This is all true...I have been told I very good at it and the fact that I really enjoy it must be a big part of it..:)
     
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    You sound like you have good handle on it already Katy :D I agree looking up at him is a small thing that is hot.
     
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    There are different types of blow jobs:
    1. Tender and slow.
    2. The suck'npause! Suck, let go and count to 4. Suck, let go and count to 4!
    3. The Rough and fast.
    4. Kinky. Lubed finger and ball squeeze.
    5. Mirror, mirror on the wall! Ocassional eye contact as you both watch the show!
    6. Your favorite flavor: You coat the dick, then suck it off!
    Honey diluted with water in the microwave.
    Maple syrop. A melted Hershey bar.
    7. The double blow job. My favorite: It requires 2 gals. 1 at a time they suck the cock for the count of 5. Then pass it to the friend!
     
  10. melicious

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    I love love love L*O*V*E* the "freshly fucked still covered in warm cum" blowjob. I absolutely live for that little sound that a man makes when I take his cock into my mouth right after we've fucked, when he's ultra-sensitive. Aghhhhh!
     
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    Two people, sweetheart. Don't judge. ;)
     
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    The idea of a guy sucking my dick horrifies me! I prefer sweet, gentle, soft, lovely women!
     
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    I was just making a point.
     
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    Katie,

    Does your jaw ever get tired? And if your guys comes while you oral sex him, how do you get off? Does he rest up and do a second round?
     
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    Wow, a girl posts ONCE and she's a pro?
     
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    Who's the "one-poster"?
     
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    ummmm - that would be "Katygirl" (posted Sept. 19) - but that happens quite often around here - we get used to it :lol

    THAT, to me , is the BEST!!!! I totally love sucking the juice from my hubby's cock, after a good hard fuck! and he does too... as he often takes it out and "commands me" to suck his cock. (Did I mention , I love being commanded by him during sex?) :rofl
     
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    I love you Rose!
     
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    I think the best thing to do for a blow job is to get each other off. Do the good old reliable 69. It gives you the extra passion and it will also do a lot for him. My all time goal that I am still striving for after 20 years of marriage is to cum together doing a 69. The problem is that she loves receiving but not giving. How does he feel about a little anal play? Maybe dip a finger in your wetness and run it around his anal rosebud.
     
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    that's a sore spot (if there is one), my lack of bj's. i don't do it much because i dont get the impression that i'm doing it right and don't get much feed back from him. funny, I seem to remember being good at it in high school. Ha! anyhoo, i think i may be needing to show more emotion. thanks for the tips.