I have some great techniques down for lasting as long as I want, I don't even have to stop thrusting or slow down anymore. The problem I have sometimes is after focusing for awhile on NOT cumming it's difficult to get out of that mentality of "don't cum..don't cum...don't cum...don't cum...", after I feel my partner is fully satisfied, I suddenly WANT to cum right there on the spot, but can't. Which quickly leads to thoughts of not being able to and it goes downhill from there, usually because of time constraints. I don't get upset about it, and it's really not a big deal, it would just be nice to be able to finish at the desired time, for my sake, but especially for hers. Not finishing makes her feel unattractive :ugh So any tips? Advice? Anything you guys do when the time has come for you to deflate the ol flesh balloon?