[Ask a Guy] Guys and Girls: Grower vs Shower

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  1. APalmer29

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    Quick back story then a question for guys and girls?

    I am curious to find out if most guys are "Growers or Showers". I am wandering because some days, flaccid I look like an 11 year old boy and others days I look and feel average but still smaller than the norm. The other night I was at a bar and it happened to be one of those nights when my little friend really did live up to his "little" status. I became embarrassed as I am 22 years old, 6'3" and I was standing next to guys of smaller stature, and I glanced around to see what everyone was packing in order to compare. From what I witnessed, it seemed to me that most guys are showers. I am a definite grower. I am happy with my actual penis size 6" long and a little over 5" in girth, which is slightly above the average size. Its just embarrassing to appear so small, even when no one is looking. - In Jr. High, someone pulled my towel down waiting for the showers, and soon everybody knew I had a small "flaccid" penis. Believe me, its not easy to have a counter argument of, "Its only flaccid until I get hard!

    Guys, are you a grower or shower? how much do you grow??

    Girls, does it matter to you if your guy is a grower or a shower?

    For the record, :slong is a shower lol
     
  2. lbushwalker

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    AP29, I suffer the same predicament as a grower also.
    Depending on temperature it can go from tiny 1 inch of puckered wrinkled skin to sort of low average.
    In it's full glory it only gets to 5" but 6" thick so definitively a grower.
    No sexual partner has ever made feel inadequate as the first time they've seen my Willie has always been at attention parade mode then only afterwards seen him as a winnie penie by which time they are happy to call it cute and work it back up to it's full glory state.
    Pissing at the stalls has always been an issue but if I'm piston for a bus then to hell with it ;)
     
  3. UnCut23

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    Most guys are growers, I forget where I read a study or survey or whatever but something like less than 20% of guys are showers.

    I'm def a grower, girls shouldn't care. They know it will get bigger when it gets hard so who cares what it's like limp?
     
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    varies


    Most of the time it's a show-er

    from 4-1/2" to 6", 5" to 5-1/2 girth

    fully hard it gets to 7-3/8 nbp x 6-7/16.
     
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    I go from about 4.5" to 5" length and 5" girth to about 7" length and 6.5" girth erect (my flaccid girth never varies). A show-er.
     
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    I'll put my 2 cents worth in...it makes absolutely no difference to me what it looks like flaccid. ;) :D
     
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    You know when you can see a guys package outline in his jeans, sweats or whatever he is wearing... You don't think noticing a smaller or bigger dick size, flaccid or not, is going to help/hurt a guys chance or possibly label him/his junk as small...?
     
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    No...not really. To be honest, for me, if I can notice it that much in his pants, it is actually a turn off.
     
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    If I'm sleeping with a guy, I prefer a grower - I love seeing the changes it goes through. I also really love taking a small penis fully into my mouth and feeling it fill my mouth up. Unfortunately I don't get to do this much anymore as my guy's hard before his clothes come off. :(

    However, I don't mind looking at a show-er's crotch through his pants and imagining that he's slightly turned on. :p
     
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    I'm a grower. After a run, my dick retracts so much its barely there. I love coming home from a run and getting in the shower with wifey and watching it grow from less than an inch to 6, then she gets me off and he shrinks back to around 2-3 inches.
     
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    It never mattered to me that it is grower or shower or as big as Eiffel Tower :D

    All matters to me is how strong and effective his tongue is as lawn mower (my pussy lawn) :p
     
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    Very strong and long ^
     
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    Grower, but the finished product is nothing to rave about other than it's hard to get off in less than forty minutes or so.
     
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    I don't know. Flacid I'm 6 1/2"- erect I'm just over 8 3/4" x 6 3/8, someone please tell me which I am.
     
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    Duh raci........shower and then maybe slower as well :eyes
    Fuck, your flacid is bigger than my erect dude :whoa
     
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    Def a grower. flaccid looks like a fucking tic tac (lol) but erect looks like a fun stick thats hard to conceal. I kinda like the fact that it changes hugely in size.
     
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    Sorry, I was just asking. What do you mean by "slower?" I'm trying to get some idea about how the compairisons are and what constitutes "size." I'm sorry if I've offended you or anyone else.

    raci