Guys - Anal Orgasms?

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  1. dher

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    Anybody able to come to a complete ejaculatory orgasm through anal stimulation alone? I can achieve a nice satisfying rythmic pulsation through fingers and/or vibrators & dildos, but never quite over the hump so to speak.

    Any tips on technique?
     
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    nope... sorry. Is that even possible?
     
  3. Bluesy

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    I don't know if it works for every guy, but I've read that if you put a plug/anal vibrator in for about 20 min., not touching it, just leaving it alone, you'll have an a-spot O. *shrugs* Worth a shot, no?
     
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    Milking the prostate, I am not sure if you can do it without assistances though
     
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    I have. My orgasms for prostate stimulation are usually non-ejaculatory but on occasion I'll get off a small round. It always involves a vibrator and, while laying on your back, try holding your testicles down between your legs pulling your penis up away from your abdomen and perpendicular to your body. This stretches out the skin on your shaft and creates more sensation on the nerve endings.
     
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    A friend of mine in the states has very strong
    orgasms through massaging the prostate with a
    dildo


    I will ask him what his technique is...

    Cant wait to hear :)
     
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    my wife wants to stick her finger up there because she has heard that that is where our sweet spot is, I am reluctant to do it because I think it might hurt. Any ideas?
     
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    I have, but you have to bring yourself to the edge of an organism by masterbrating and then finish yourself off with anal stimulation.
     
  9. igor

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    That's probably the only way it might work for me. I'll have to try it that way. With just prostate stimulation alone, I have ejaculated but without an orgasm.
     
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    I have not yet. But as soon as I can get myself the "Aneros"
    I'm sure I will have lots.
    G**gle it
     
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    Let us know how it works for you - I thought about getting one myself.
     
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    stick your own finger in, get us to it, then let her go in

    Have you done anal with her, if you have then be a man and take it atleast once:lol
     
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    I can get to a pretty satisfied place with just fingers alone, but have never had just the right amount of stimulation with a dildo or vibrator to get me going. I do find that if you apply pressure both internally and externally and just wait it out (mentioned above) you can have a nice set of rythmic contractions which may be the anal equivalent of orgasm. Just never been able to get that feeling to roll into a full blown whole body orgasm. But I continue to work at it FWIW.
     
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    I've used the Aneros. It's a good first time prostate toy but you have to be patient and practice with it. Don't expect big results on the first try. Read up on the suggested techniques and use it when you can concentrate quietly on your own state of arousal. Don't practice while watching porn for instance. You really need to focus on your own body to get the most out of it.
     
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    Wow, didn't even know that was possible.
     
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    Unless she's got long fingernails it won't hurt if you take your time, force yourself to relax, and use plenty of lube. If she's got long fingernails you might have her wear latex gloves.

    An ex of mine used to like doing that to me. She had long nails (no gloves) and wanted to do the in-out thing, and I never liked that, but a gentle prostate massage can be kind of nice. In fact, if she does it at the point of orgasm it can be mind blowing.

    Give it a try or two. If you're really concerned about it, maybe you should first try it on your own with a small dildo until you learn to relax your sphincter. Once you get past that, it's no problem at all. Still, you might ask her to just go a little at a time. There are a lot of nerve endings at the opening of the anus, so just a touch at the outside can feel pretty nice and might leave you wanting more.
     
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    I knew this is possible, never met someone who's got it to work, I haven't and I don't think I could take the trial process needed to find what's best it would be just too painful...
     
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    I haven't been able to do it yet but I'm working on it! I have a regular aneros and the new Progazm aneros prostate massagers and man they get me close!
     
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    Cool - let us know if you get there. I haven't tried the Aneros, but it looks exciting.
     
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    yea ive tried a dildo but im not sure if it was the sole reason for ejaculation - guess ill have to experiment again :p