Ok... I've always wondered this and would like to know what makes you (male or female) want to date some one who is older than you? I've dated guys/girls in the ranges from 25 to 50. The older guy was very fit and still is. Although we do not see each other anymore physically. We are friends. Lately I have been getting hit on by younger guys when I am out with my girl friends who are all in their 20's. Maybe it is because they see me as being a "cougar" of the group. I don't know. Just wondering what makes guys appeal to older women?
I've been with an older woman before; sexually, but not in a relationship. I guess it was the maturity that was the turn on. There was no drama, no bullshit. She knew what she wanted and she wasn't wasting any time being nervous or playing any games. She was confident and straightforward. I think a lot of guys get tired of the stupid drama games a lot of younger girls tend to like to play with them. They don't want to jump through hoops, they don't want to be "tested" with choices and subtleties. They want a simple, straightforward relationship with no bullshit that is centered around honesty and what makes you both happy. I think older women are more likely to be able to provide that. ~Steve
Steve hit the nail on the head.Good Reply. A lot of it has to do with the sexual prime thing I think.
I agree with you and Hot Wheels even if I enjoyed younger as well; the younger ones I met were BS free
With my luck the older ones I met were not the most experienced. The most experienced were closer to my age, I learned from some who were closer to my age, some younger ones, but mostly I learned as I went, from trying from imagination, also taught things to most.
ALS; it really depends in which arroyo are talking about. Most women from the late 60s onwards were a lot more exposed to sexual things than those born before that time. Many young women of today are going to be awesome cougars but sadly I won't be around to enjoy them!
I went and looked at Ready2please's pictures and it is clear to see why you are getting hit on by younger guys, you have an amazing body! With your years of life experiences I imagine those young fella's KNOW you could teach them a few thing in bed ang give them some great memories. And of course bragging rights, you would definitely be a catch.
She wouldn't be an older woman to me, but I wouldn't say no either. Too bad she hasn't been here in nearly a year. I miss her. xx
I have never gone after/dated/looked at an older man. Things happen. My "friend" at work is 15 years older. Not sure long term but having fun now!
Combination of the sexual prime thing and the fact that many older women are damn sexy thats the main reason for me , no more or less to it.
I have GOT to start looking at the date of these posts that keep coming back to life Cappy_Dick! I didn't notice it was from 2010. I feel like such a shmuck. It showed up as a new post and I didn't recognize the name, so I just assumed it was new.
A lot of newer people just start replying, without looking. At least the topic is still relevant, but alas, addressing any of OP's is like talking to thin air. xx
/groans melodramatically/ But the New Thread button is all the way over there! And then I've gotta, like, type up something? You're asking too much of us. It's too much work. You're mean.
Yes and when you start a new thread some smart arse will post see post "quote" it has all ben said before! No win situation!
Some very good points made here, and I agree with most all of them. With older women there seems to be less drama. They know what they want, and go for it.
