Ok... I've always wondered this and would like to know what makes you (male or female) want to date some one who is older than you? I've dated guys/girls in the ranges from 25 to 50. The older guy was very fit and still is. Although we do not see each other anymore physically. We are friends. Lately I have been getting hit on by younger guys when I am out with my girl friends who are all in their 20's. Maybe it is because they see me as being a "cougar" of the group. I don't know. Just wondering what makes guys appeal to older women?