I need some advice from strangers... I have just finished with my girlfriend after 2 years, and both she and I are completely devistated.. (more so her), you know when you get the sudden urge to be single again and you shake it off, once that happens it's extremely hard to get it out of your head. We are both only 20 years old and I love her to pieces! but on the other hand, I am only 20 after all and there is alot I want to do before I settle down like going on holiday with the lads and stuff like that! Now she is ringing me everyday crying down the phone, telling me how much she loves me and how I have broken her heart, which is really not helping me as I am feeling really gutted as it is! The last thing I want to do is to start going back out with her cos I feel sorry for her (which has happened already) but I do not want to break her heart! Is it normal for someone to feel this gutted after breaking up with someone? Or is that a sign that I still want them..? Please help..