Guilty Conscience?

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  1. noturbanski

    noturbanski New Member

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    Lately I've been feeling guilty about masturbating.... So much so that I've totally given it up...
    Anyone have the same experiences / comments?
     
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    hmm i dunno there are a lot of times i feel guilty after the fact....not always but a lot

    but not to that extent
     
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    Screw guilt!! As long as I'm not hurting anyone or braking any law I don't want to hear it.:mad
     
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    i break lots of laws and i never feel guilty lol
     
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    you shouldn't feel guilty. who wouldn't want free pleasure?
     
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    What particular aspect of masturbating makes you feel guilty? Why?
     
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    Noturbanski For goodness sake what's your problem, enjoy it . It's a natural as anything you can do! Perhaps you have been brainwashed by some religious hang-up? Me I've been into it now on a frequent basis for more than five years without a pang of guilt. Relax and enjoy one of God's gifts.
     
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    I agree with everyone here. Masturbation is as normal a bodily function as eating food or breathing. Also, it's not wise to totally deny yourself a pleasure. That will only increase its appeal. If you honestly feel guilty about masturbation then perhaps cutting back is a more realistic option.

    Hell, my SO wishes I would masturbate more often. :p
     
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    I do it quite a bit. I never feel guilty about jacking off but I do sometimes feel guilty about the porn I always watch wile doing it. Only because I know that wanking it too often makes me not want sex with my wife as often.
     
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    I don't understand, whats there to feel guilty about?

    The only time I felt guilty after masturbating was when I came all over my partners side of the bed after we just changed the sheets. Damn, she was so mad.:spank
     
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    I say that there is nothing wrong with masturbating as often as you like as long as you are not depriving your partner of sex because of it.
     
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    :rofl That would have been so funny.....

    Oh, and noturbanski....its perfectly normal...:jizz
    Remember...theres nothing like sex with someone you love:naughtydance
     
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    i think thorn hit what i feel guilty about... it just almost seems too animalistic and degrading...
     
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    Ahhh. So you're talking about masturbating to porn then. Well that makes more sense now. Just switch to amateur.
     
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    Despite all the advice that you have been given that masturbating is normal, if YOU do feel guilty about it (or anything else in your life) don't do it!
    With this particular practice, as you mature sexually and have more general experience you may decide differently. Your choice!
     
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    I know *exactly* what you are talking about it and did a little research online awhile ago.

    The issue is, after you masterbate you lose your erection and your 'libido' per se. This then brings you back to full awareness and you realize -- damn, what did I just do? Supposedly, after you become more comfortable with it and as you mature sexually (with experience) you'll be fine. Fret not, for it's just a stupid chemical response.
     
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    i do feel like that sometimes, but u just gota think that every1 else is doing it so enjoy urself