Ok so I have been married for 19 years, I have a complex about the way my penis looks when flacid. It is just over 2 inches Flacid but when hard i am 5.5 length and 6.5 girth...Now me and my wife have a wonderful relationship, We are compatible sexually. She has had a ex-boyfriend who had a 7.5 length and 4 inch girth. We have 5 kids and she says the length isnt important to her so much as the girth is....but here is what my question is. When a man is standing infront of you naked honestly don't you women feel like the shower has an advantage over the grower. Arn't women more aroused by seeing a larger hanging penis instead of a mushroom?....Im not talking about the act of sex just the 1st impression when you see him naked for the 1st time...Arn't we growers at a disadvantage?