So in all this was pretty funny. One my friends had logged onto my computer couple days ago with his email. I had to get onto my own email and as I did so his email address came up. What I saw was a huuuge archive of sex related/craigslist ads. Some of them were porn callings, some prostitutes, others casual encounters. Shortly thereafter one my buddies comes by we enjoy the day sifting through all these emails together, laughing, exploring... you know whatever. Getting to the point, aside the laughter, most of it was pretty serious stuff. He had done spanking videos for older men, got with married couples, lots of pictures of him naked being sent out to random strangers, tons and tons of hooker ads. This isn't any ordinary friend. We've known him dating back to beginning of high school. He's alway been a friend we suspected was a virgin, which is now funny realizing he's been way more sexually active than any of us. We also had too much fun on our return and with company showed the pictures and emails out to way too many people who have connection to him. I'm afraid this stuff is going to get out the wrong way. He's already one those friend that endures a lot of ridicule and "playful" jokes. How should we confront him? Surely we can't allow him to here it by here say, at that point will be skewed and even exaggerated further. The events are pretty serious. I'd hate to think we could drive him into not only emotional harm but physical harm as well. The extent of it all is so serious that we don't know how to approach it. Everyone we've told has said to be quiet and that he shouldn't find out we know... What would you do in this extreme discovery.