Good Question...

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by tall_dallas, May 18, 2007.

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Who is it important to?

  1. (Male) It's more important to me.

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    40.7%
  2. (Male) It's more important to her

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  3. (Male) It's equally important

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  4. (Female) It's more important to me.

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  5. (Female) It's more important to him.

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    3.7%
  6. (Female) It's equally important

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    18.5%
  1. tall_dallas

    tall_dallas New Member

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    Between you and your SO... Is sex more important to you or them?
     
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    I would definately say its more important to me. I think about it all the time! Its my favorite pastime!
     
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    It's more important to me. I've been in a basically sexless marriage for 13 years and have recently been released from my cage, so to speak. I love sex and think about it 24/7. Got a lot of catching up to do.
     
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    I'm in a long distance relationship and i would definitely say that i seem to feel the lack of sex a lot more than he does.
     
  5. Puss_in_boots

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    I voted for equally important.
     
  6. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    I voted 'more important to him'
    Now, before i start getting hit with rotten tomatoes.... I found the key word to be "SEX". Thorn can have 'sex' at the drop of a hat! I, on the other hand, really need romance/mood/'connection' before I really feel those sensual desires building inside me.
    With us both being so busy lately, he has been a horney mo-fo, and I've been rather 'take-it-or-leave-it'.

    I'm sure business will slow down, and we'll get back on track.
    As a matter of fact, I think I'm off all next week! :brow
     
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    Although I've not got a SO at the moment its always been more important to me, at least over time (I've been knocked off my feet the first time by a couple of girls)
     
  8. SexyScorp

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    Me....always has been

    With every partner I ever had

    I am beginning to think i may be insatiable...

    :(
     
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    I believe sex should be something that pleasures both of us equally.
     
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    At least in my current relationship, she demands more sex than I do... It's not that I lack appetite, but she just wants more and more until she starts complaining of soreness.
     
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    BigDPhilly New Member

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    My wife enjoys sex but I'm crazy for it. Her first marriage was pretty sexless and she endured for 15 years while I am climbing the walls after a few days.
     
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    I voted equally important.
    When she's away, she gets horny about the same time I do. When she's here, she's ready for sex about the same time I am. Sometimes we can't wait until after dinner so we have a little sex standing up in the kitchen while the food is cooking.
     
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    voted for equally important
     
  14. igor

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    Definetly more important to me since she wants no part of it.
     
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    equally, we are both horney gits
     
  16. Bella

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    I think it is most important to me! :)
    That is why I have a bf & a gf! :cheer
    ~Bella
     
  17. cbrmale

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    I voted equally, because if I don't initiate after a day or two my wife does, so clearly we are in synch in terms of sexual desire and sexual frequency.