Golden Shower and A-T-M Questions

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by SDAVIS, Sep 19, 2008.

  1. SDAVIS

    SDAVIS New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 19, 2006
    Messages:
    177
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    GA
    I want to expand our sex routine as it has become just that, too routine. I am curious about golden showers. I am wondering....how many of you participate in this? Do most people receive one on their body/chest? Do they receive it on face or do they receive it atleast partially in their mouth? I think she would be up for giving me one in the tub to some extent. I just don't know what is 'normal' and what would just be 'too much' to ask for..

    Ok, on to the next issue...ok, NO CHANCE this will ever happen in my relationship ever, so I am just curious how commonly this 'ass to mouth' is done. Is it done without or with condom in ass and removing it for mouth? What do women think of doing this, assuming they are the one taking it in the mouth afterward? Does it turn them on or repulse the ones who do it but they do it anyway because their guy likes it? I only heard of this a cpl of years ago and at my age, I don;t knwo anyone who does it, and I don't necessarily want my woman to do it, unless it was her idea of course...All answers/comments appreciated. Thx
     
  2. Katprr

    Katprr New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 30, 2008
    Messages:
    464
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Somewhere in Arizona
    First off on the Golden Shower thing, I think it all depends on where the couple is most comfortable having it done to them. As far as what is normal, and what is to much that all depends on what you and your partner agree on. To be honest each person has their own standards in adult playtime, communicating with your partner is the best thing and seeing what you both are willing and not willing to do.
    Okay as far as the ATM. Well first off anyone that practices that should never go from straight Anal play to the mouth without some kinda of protection. Esample: A condom while having anal play then removing the condom and making sure the penis is COMPLETELY clean before inserting it into the mouth.
    There are people that do ATM with no protection, trust me I know since I can't begin to tell you how many people I have seen with SEVERE infections in their mouth and throat when I was working in the Emergency Room before I went to NICU. Since bowel movements are waste, and carry lots and lots of different bacteria, people that are into ATM without some sort of protection open themselves up to a HUGE world of infections that are not only extremely dangerous but some are deadly.
    I myself don't practice either of these, but to each their own.
     
  3. heelfetish

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 23, 2006
    Messages:
    7,392
    Likes Received:
    6
    Golden showers aren't my thing, but if it interest you, talk to your SO about it. ATM, on the other hand, is a particularly dangerous practice, and I don't recommend even attempting it. Personally I find the very idea repulsive, even though I'm very much into anal sex.

    Urine is (usually) sterile. Feces is not.
     
  4. SDAVIS

    SDAVIS New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 19, 2006
    Messages:
    177
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    GA
    Just to clarify, I am NOT interested in ATM, other than trying to understand why ANYONE would be. I personally find it too demeaning to my spouse and possibly a form of disrespect, not to mention the dangerous aspects of it...I am interested in hearing from those who do practice this. It won't change my opinion of it, but will just maybe enable me to understand what they get from it....
     
  5. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 8, 2005
    Messages:
    6,823
    Likes Received:
    12
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Dixie Land
    :sf members are usually 'on-the-edge' in regards to being sexually uninhibited but I honestly don't recall anyone on these forums stating that they have practiced ATM. I've seen it in porn - but we all know that porn doesn't always align itself with real life.

    There have been some who have shared their personal experience with Golden Showers. Perhaps they'll chime in.
     
  6. Berrylicious

    Berrylicious New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 21, 2008
    Messages:
    293
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Down Under
    Niether of these topics are really my thing but i did pee in my ex's mouth and down his neck because he asked me to and him flicking his tongue on my clit as i did felt AMAZING!!!
    I guess if you don't mind the smell of it and you're both 100% about trying it then i'd say don't...can kill things pretty quickly.

    I do do pussy to mouth but never ass to mouth. I think its pretty discusting and would never try such a thing....even moreso now since ready Katprr's response!!
    Not really worth it!!

    Good luck with your new little adventures though, we're always looking for new things to try...just makes things a little more exciting ;)
     
  7. igor

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 13, 2006
    Messages:
    4,110
    Likes Received:
    163
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Chicago area
    I agree. Neither of those turns my crank. There are som many more things we can do together that are safe that I'll never run out of "normal" things to try.
     
  8. SDAVIS

    SDAVIS New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 19, 2006
    Messages:
    177
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    GA
    Thanks for the feedback everyone. I guess I was just trying to get in the minds of those who may like this stuff. As I said, I find the ATM thing demoralizing to the woman. The GS thing would be something worth trying once under the right circumstances but certainly nothing I would want to incorporate into a regular routine. You all know how the mind wanders sometimes..........
     
  9. dwj21

    dwj21 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2007
    Messages:
    140
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Maryland
    ATM really only happens in porn where the female completely flushes her system with an enema and is totally clean. in real life i doubt it ever really happens.
     
  10. dwj21

    dwj21 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2007
    Messages:
    140
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Maryland
    i wouldn't mind getting pissed on though, seems pretty steamy.
     
  11. Puss_in_boots

    Puss_in_boots Adminatrix
    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 19, 2006
    Messages:
    6,443
    Likes Received:
    13
    Gender:
    Female
    Indeed, people should never base their real life sexual experiences on what they've previously seen done in porn. A lot goes on behind the scenes. They simply aren't aware of (and therefore haven't done) the extensive preparation that was done for something like ATM.
     
  12. hrnycouple2

    hrnycouple2 New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2008
    Messages:
    33
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    <Husband here> Golden Showers...Love em...hot, steamy, and I dunno...just something about the piss hitting my chest and cock...Mmmmmm...I'd never get any in my mouth though.

    Now ATM...Uhhhh No...the thought of it makes me gag...:p
     
  13. somehorneydude4

    somehorneydude4 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 20, 2008
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Orlando
    i usally do a golden shower to myself when im in the shower. i like it cause right after i finish pissing on my chest, face and cock i jack off and the piss can be used as a lube
     
  14. Hot Wheels

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 12, 2006
    Messages:
    3,415
    Likes Received:
    37
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sydney,Australia
    I once had a girlfriend who was right into anal, and, (after an enema of course) she liked doing A T M.....
    If she didnt have time for the enema...we used to do anal with a condom then take it off before she gave me head......
     
  15. L.A.X.

    L.A.X. New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 5, 2008
    Messages:
    113
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Australia
    I've delivered the golden shower to the gf a couple of times....we both enjoyed it.

    Would never think of doing this ATM.
     
  16. plush

    plush New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 6, 2010
    Messages:
    12
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    California
    Never tried either g/s or atm but the nasty kinkyness of it turns me on. I would try them if I had A willing female partner
     
  17. Lucky

    Lucky New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 14, 2010
    Messages:
    260
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Golden showers are not my thing nor the ATM. Enemas I have had, I find nothing sexual about them in the least. But different strokes for different folks.
     
  18. KinKyAznCouple

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2004
    Messages:
    70
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Nor-Cal
    I love giving Golden showers and I know he loves it and I don't mind getting it once in a while also! As for the ATM I don't think I can go through with that one maybe just a bit to much for me.
     
  19. camSOSexy

    camSOSexy New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2010
    Messages:
    13
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    San Francisco
    I perform most in sex play as a submissive service-oriented bottom with men, occasionally with women too. When introduced to w/s several years ago, was high on g and getting fucked anally and another guy approached and started to whizz on me. It made me so thrilled when the guy on my ass said he was pissing there too.

    I have been craving more ever since.

    PS: my top and I were in full disclosure about f***ing w/o condom.
     
  20. Lucky

    Lucky New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 14, 2010
    Messages:
    260
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Not my cup of tea, I see nothing sexy about body excretement. But to each their own.