Going to a swingers party . Wats the go

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  1. itsfreddo

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    Been ask to go to a swingers party can anyone tell how it all works wat do you wear can you take any toys could i have my fantasy fulfilled there
     
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    I think everythere will be a toy of some sort, so I wouldn't worry about that. I've never been to one though. Maybe wear jeans with your pockets stuffed with condoms. Have fun!
     
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    I think it's ok to go looking normal, (jeans baskets t-shirt) but wear something funny as underpants when some start to get clothes off ;)
     
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    They supply condoms, so dress neat casual and have a lot of fun. If you have a good body then jeans and a tight t-shirt ought to do the trick.

    Be nice to the women and you may get some nice sex. Please don't perve on couples who are actually having sex, and even worse masturbate to couples having sex. I've had sex in the open at swingers parties 'cause I like being watched, but discreetly watched.
     
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    Thanks

    thanks very much for your reply . X
     
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    I had no idea there are rules for attending a sex party! If we ever went and had sex in front of strangers, I would be kinda upset if they ignorned us. Or we couldn't watch others. No public masturbation at a swingers party allowed?! I refuse to go then. Is there a party where men masturbate in the open?:)
     
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    There aren't rules regarding not watching and I do like to be watched when having sex. I have heard of parties where men masturbate to couples having sex and that would be creepy for me. I certainly enjoy being watched having sex more than I enjoy watching other couples, but I prefer watching to be tasteful and discreet.

    The club I have been to twice now has a public area and private rooms, so couples having sex have a choice. I prefer the public area and so far it's been good to be watched by both men and women who clearly enjoyed the show my partner and I put on.
     
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    Just be polite, not pushy and dont get drunk. Swinging is alot of fun with the right people.
     
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    There's a wonderful swingers club in our city. There are rules. They do everything they can to make women comfortable, and everyone can do as much or as little as they want.
     
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    op's "party" was 2 years ago....
     
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    Yeah.. I was just commenting in general. Not helpful to him now I know lol
     
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    lol. Still waiting for that kind of invite
     
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    What city do you live in? I will meet you there.
     
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    maybe I need to go to one of those to get my mojo back. I doubt there are any in the NW Ohio area though...
     
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    I've been to one and it was amazing. No pressure. No single men unless they came with a couple. Everybody is interviewed ahead of time and there was a great variety of people with a formal introduction from the club owners. Plenty to do , variety of rooms. It was a great time
     
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    I'd be the guy who gets the invite to a "swingers party," shows up all excited, and is then super disappointed when there are no (non-sex item) swings to play on... because I'm about 9 years old (in my head and my heart). :oops:
     
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    Would think you would have to go with a female,don't no where you're going but thought most only allowed couples otherwise would be a dude ranch