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  1. billytk1977

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    Ok, so i love being nude. Its not a sexual thing, i just really enjoy the sun and wind all over. The pool is more pleasant, sleeping or relaxing more enjoyable. I think a big part of that is being comfortable with yourself and enjoyijg your surroundings. My wife will not go nude at home, she says she is more comfortable in her clothes. I do mot qnd will not force her to join me naked, but i really wish she would. So now to the point of why i post this, does anyone have any ideas of how i can help change her mind about nudity? To show her it is not about having sex but to be in nature? And hopefully change her mind about going to a nudist resort in the future.
     
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    Can't help changeing her mind about nudity. We used to go around the house nude quite a bit. Then the kid came along And all that had to end:(
     
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    I love swimming nude :rolleyes:
     
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    Does she have comfy clothes that you could maybe make smaller or less?

    I'm at a loss since I'm most comfy naked.
     
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    Some people are just more comfortable clothed.
    If it's not a sexual thing then does it matter.
    She's more comfortable clothed, why push her to be naked?
     
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    I love being naked and would love to live in a nudist community so I could walk around nude outside.
    If she prefers clothes, buy her some very loose, free flowing, sheer clothing.
     
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    I love being nude :)
     
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    Sheer clothing, great idea, you both get what you need/want.
    I actually understand, I can't sleep uncovered if I'm nude.
     
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    i dont push her to be nude, if she is comfortable that is all that matters. i have tried t talk her into a clothing optional resort and she will not do it, she says my body is for her to see and nobody else.
     
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    Swimming and in a hot tub nude. The best... :)
     
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    You can't argue that logic ;)
     
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    I think because we are onea sex site and most people here prefer to me nude. That we think it should be the same for everyone. And that not the case. Most people I believe are more comfortable clothed.
    I am not comfortable being nude. It's partly up bringing and partly being married so some who would make me uncomfortable if I did walk about naked.
    Can I change? Maybe with the right person, lots would change.
     
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    I too like being nude
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    I need some help picking my jaw up from the floor. Holy hell....I'd love to be your neighbor!
     
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    Wow!
    Sadly my yard isn't private enough.
     
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    i do get to go nude here in the pool and back yard as well, i built privacy fence and the trees/shrubs on the fence line block prying eyes.
     
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    sweetly, most are taught at a young age to be ashamed of their bodies, and to keep it covered as it is not to be seen. the human body is beautiful in all of its forms, tall, short, skinny to round. people should not be ashamed. also nudity does not equal sex, this is a misconception that most can not get past as it is also pounded into their heads. if the world was naked, it would be very diffrent and i think much more peaceful.
     
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