I've had many opportunities to "go down on a girl" but I am sometimes hesitant when they are not saved. I don't like the whole hair idea. Is it as bad as I make it out to be? Enlighten me. In addition, some girls are apprehensive about letting a guy go down on them...probably an issue of self confidence or shyness from experimenting new things. Sometimes they think it's weird. Is there anything I can do to convince a girl that hasn't allowed me to go down on her let me?