God, I want it....

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  1. azezpz1

    azezpz1 New Member

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    I really want my GF to let us do Oral and Anal, but she always refuses, I know it's not right to force her to do anything, and I don't plan on it, but is there anyway to make it more enjoyable for her. She says anal hurts, and she has a bad gag reflex, and doesn't like the taste. Are there any options? Thanks!
     
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    Sounds like you need to appreciate your girlfriend for what she will do for you and drop the oral and anal as she flat out doesn't like either.
     
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    Yeah, I guess that's what i'll end up doing.
     
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    Wow...we have a Jedi Master Yoda in the house!
     
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    Discuss it with her. Try finger anal only for example, for a week or so. Then see what she thinks. And for blow jobs, tell her to try them, but just for a minute or so. Some things take time to get used to.
     
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    Sex is a vessel for intimacey, getting yourself off is what fleshlights and porn are for. One day she might, untill then just focus on appreciating the things she brings into your life.

    ....ah hell dont listen to me, I only get to see my girl once a year if were lucky.
     
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    rabidinsomniac New Member

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    Sounds to me like either you two have to compromise or you have to find a new girlfriend. Personally I could never be happy with a girl who wouldn't fulfill my sexual desires/needs.

    Communicate and move on from there Make your concerns felt before you make a decision. Let her make hers felt too. See where it goes from there. That's my advice.

    Common mistake: Men have a choice. Appreciate women, for God's sake, but don't let them rule you. There are a lot of fish in the sea. That's a rule. Live it, love it, learn it.
     
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    Anal is a popular refusal so can't help you there ;)

    On oral try a few things like making sure you are shaved or trimmed to make it better visually for her. On the gag reflex /taste side there are a few angles you can bring up if she is open to trying. Usually it's a bad experience with a previous inconsiderate guy that ruins it. Here are a few work arounds that might help.

    Don't blast a big load in her because it's just more to taste. You could jerk off a few hours or day before so it's a much smaller load. Longer its been since you've cum the bigger the load.

    On the gag reflex don't cum right at her throat or back of mouth. I've been with girls who don't like that and I can understand where they are coming from not wanting something shot into their throat. Just tell them when you are about to cum and she can turn her head and shoot it into her cheek.
     
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    Oral...
    Add cream
    Or tastey lube.
     
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    Anal is painful.
    I'm refusing to do it at the moment
    I've a mental block to it because it's hurt me so bad...
    although the first ever time i did it, it didnt hurt at all.
     
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    Ive never had proper anal sex either, had the tip of him in me, but it hurt like hell, tell me how to do it, please, I know he would love it.
     
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    Do a forum search. There are a few good How-To threads for how to get properly prepared for anal sex.
     
  13. vickisam

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    Anal = LOTS AND LOTS OF LUBE! Try your finger first to loosen her up. If you do dry in her ass first... Well when she makes you stop and says she wants to blow you first.... she will bite off your dick... not that I ever did that. :) :)

    he uses lots of lube on me and his finger to loosen me up.. lots of foreplay for this... sometimes a vibrator on the ass just to get me worked up.... then ever so slowly until he penatrates the ring then its off to the races....

    Just my thoughts... yea, my thoughts, thats right! EWWWWW lol

    V
     
  14. burton

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    for oral.. gag reflex, don't go deep.. and taste.. well, when i eat my girlfriend out i usually squirt a little kiwi-strawberry lube on it by the lube company WET.. and it tastes great.. i could eat her out al day. tastes like how a jolly ranger tastes, very sweet and tasty
     
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    Anal, eh, she may just have a natural aversion to that. Personally, its fun for a change but not something that would break a relationship. A girl I used to be with at first hated giving me oral and would just stick to hand jobs (aww the joys of being 15) then I started giving her oral. Instantly, she was like, oh wow that was amazing. My response was that, the same difference between fingering her and giving her oral was the same difference between her giving me a hand job and her blowing me. She decided that she should do it to make me happy cause I was willing to do it to make her happy. 6 years later that woman still gives me better head than anyone else though we're only friends now. The point of my story is that you just have to convince her that it means a lot to you, and then if she really cares she will do it. Offer to not cum in her mouth at first, then work up to it.
     
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    for the anal work at it and go slow for the oral buy some flavered lube and get her some gag strips:lol . herd cloroceptic works numbs the back of the mouth.cp:)