god damnit....embaressing night.

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  1. Warrick

    Warrick New Member

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    Basically, i went to have sex with my girlfriend last night. All was going well. Did some foreplay, i played with her clit a little bit then went to put on a condom....AND MY DICK WENT SOFT ON ME. The erection wouldnt come back.

    I can't even express how embaressing this was...i dont think i have erectile problems...because ive had sex and can get hard. Sometimes though it just goes limp on me randomly and its a real piss off.

    What can i do to make sure this doesnt happen again....do i resort to viagra?
     
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    Is the condom throwing you off, do you think? I've read that masturbating with a condom on sort of "retrains" the penis to stay erect during that transitional phase.
     
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    ohhh i had the same problem a week ago and it would embaress the hell out of me too.
    what i did was when your dick is hard put the condom on half-way then like play with the other part that isnt covered with the condom, or just grab the part that isnt covered with the condom and insert your dick in her then when you go in and out a couple times put the condom on fully.
    trust me i had the same problem a week ago i thought i would never have sex.
    it works.

    oh and the reason you keep goin down when you put the condom on is because you cant feel anything, well at least that was the reason for me.

    just try wat i told you.
    i gaurentee it works.
     
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    Aww well firstly my ex had that happen several times - the best thing to do I guess is laugh it off - not litrerally ;) but make ajoke of it. As lnog as its not your last one then its only a minor deterent
     
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    A common occurance with all of us. As a teen when I got a girl who seemed out of my league, and I was trying too hard to please her, sometimes I'd lose the hard-on. Relaxing helps, and getting free of "having" to do it. Sometimes it's good to switch to hand, or blow jobs for a session or two to loosen up. I've even just confessed to the girl, "look, I'm a little uptight, can you help me relax a little?" Usually they were happy to help. Once I regained my composure, I could bang away like a stallion!
     
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    or maybe your not comfortable around her naked..
    is that a problem? are you nervous when yall are bout to fuck?
    or wut?...
     
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