giving wife head

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    ckjacobus New Member

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    I love eating my wife and she throughly enjoys it when I do it but she very rarely lets me do it and when she does she wont let me do until she cums. She has cummed with me down maybe twice in eight years. She says that she would rather just have sex. Any ideas on ways I can do this more often with her. I love the way her body trembles when I do and she cums with my face down there plus we can always have sex after I do that becuase I haven't finished yet anyways so we can just go straight into that. Please help.
     
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    I had trouble with that for a long time. To put it plainly, I was not multiorgasmic. So he would bring me to climax (or almost) through oral, and then switch to intercourse.... and by the time it started feeling good to me, he was done. So then I liked the oral, but could care less about fucking cuz it didn't do a thing for me. I tried to take oral until I was close.... and then tell him I was ready for sex. That helped. Now, after time, I can have multiple orgasms through oral and go right to intercourse and have several more. :)
     
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    I am glad my SO can orgasom several times, because I love the feeling of her cum on my lips and tongue
     
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    Well, it takes time and practice for us all. LOL. Sheesh!
     
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    My wife never lets me when I try, but then complains that I don't. Go Figure.
     
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    Never lets you what, exactly?
     
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    She never lets me do oral to her. That is the topic of this thread is it not?
     
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    Yes, don't be snarky. I was just asking to make sure I understood exactly what it was she wouldn't let you do. Perhaps you meant she won't let you go until just before she orgasms and then goto intercourse, or that she won't let you help her be multiorgasmic. There was room for confusion. LOL.
     
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    Sorry about that. I didn't mean to sound "snarky". :)
     
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    I forgive you. Now.... what exactly does she do when you try? When you let her know you want to? And...how do you let her know you want to?
     
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    All you can do is ask her why she doesn't enjoy coming during oral. Some women are too sexually inhibited to let go all the time...it can be a trust issue, a relationship issue, or just garden-variety sexual repression. Talk to her; you might learn something you didn't know before.
     
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    I usually just start putting my head down there after I've worked her up real good with a finger or 2. What she does when I try is push my head away and says no. So No means no and she loses out and only ends up with a good fucking.
     
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    What if you add something like tasting your fingers, and telling her how good she tastes? Or smelling your fingers, and telling her that she smells delicious, could you please taste her? Or starting with oral, and THEN adding fingers.
     
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    Maybe she would go for the 69 position, me and my partner do it all the time and she is very pleased.
     
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    Personally, I didn't like 69 until I could really enjoy oral on its own.
     
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    You need to get to the root of she doesn't want to cum from oral sex. I agree with M you need to tell her how great this is and how good she tastes, how much it means to you etc.