Me again about this same woman. I have tried to give her oral a few times, I love pleasing my partner that way. The only thing is she never let me start so doesn't happen - I want to be considerate and respect her at the same time. She gave me three answers when I ask why. 1. An ex BF tried and NEVER had results (I get results when doing it) 2. Her culture and upbringing, she moved in Canada at 13 from another country 3. It's degrading for a man, this sort ties in second answer. Yet she says it's okay if a woman will take a man in her mouth and he ejacultes in her mouth. This confuses me, and while I love intercourse very much, this can ruin things, I am not feeling fulfilled with the big picture. Either I move on after more tries, or I live without as far as options go. Can I get feedback on all that, wanting to give her oral real bad. She is clean, I like her smell, and I told her I like the way her vagina looks.