Girls who would you choose?

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  1. wololo696

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    Hi all, I've been thinking a lot about this lately and wanted a bit of input from others.

    There are 2 men.

    1) This man loves you to death he's handsome but a little tubby. He massages you, plays with you, sensually uses his tongue in all the right places and gets you off all the time and doesn't think about his own pleasure. He'll take care of your needs. But when it comes to sex he's small, he cannot penetrate you far but there is so much love from him while having sex. Sex is ok, but the rest is fantastic.

    2) Extemely good looking man, no brains, doesn't like to play or pleasure you. He only wants to have sex and cares more for his pleasure. But he can fill you when he penetrates. Sex is mind blowing but there is nothing else.

    Who would you choose? I know some people may think this is a stupid topic and the answer is obvious. But all to many times that right answer isn't an easy choice, and in todays world I see the wrong choice one to many.

    Thanks!
     
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    Okay - #1, hands down.

    A woman (in my opinion) is moved to tears by a man who gives himself for her pleasure.

    Give me a man who looks me in the eyes.... fills me emotionally - Small? Can't penetrate me far? - - Seriously, that is soooooo NOT important. Be real, connect with me. I will be putty in your hands.
     
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    First one

    and guess what i actually have tht guy ^_^ apart from he has a big cock so i win everything hands down.
     
  4. Kronnie

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    Def Number two .....i mean who is actualy going to choose 2 when it seems like a loaded question :p

    and just curious how would you know what the other guy is packing, and what he is like sexualy ?

    Just wondering...
     
  5. Bluesy

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    Define "a little tubby". I mean, does he have a little paunch and maybe isn't in great shape, or is has he got a definite weight problem? If he's modestly overweight, I would go with option #1. If he was carrying more than a few extra pounds, I would choose "neither". A guy who doesn't care about my pleasure isn't going to be "mind-blowing" in bed.
     
  6. Kronnie

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    Bluesy would you mind iof i whisked you off , somehwere quite ... ? :)
     
  7. Bluesy

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    Why, I would not mind one eensy lil bit :dgrin Have any place special in mind?
     
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    Somewhere very nice and quite, ( but i promise it wouldnt stay quite for long hehe )
     
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    #2

    all i want right now is sex
     
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    Depending...

    ...on where you live we could fix that right now! :lol I'm choice #3, best of both but, right now, all I want is sex! :dgrin
     
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    #1 without a doubt for me. While i love my sex i'm after something more than just that.
     
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    I saw Bluesy and Kronnie going into the Holiday Inn. :brow
     
  13. Puss_in_boots

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    I guess it would depend on whether you were looking for a relationship or just sex...but now that I think about it, even for just sex number 1 sounds a lot more appealing. Sounds like number 2 has no personality and the only think he has going for him is the size of his cock.
     
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    While many women will say #1 and they may even get back to him #2 will end up in the sack far more often.
     
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    number 1, definately.
     
  16. Kronnie

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    I wish :p
     
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    I would agree, but i also think number two would be hitting the curb far more often as well :p
     
  18. Clark

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    Hey wololo696

    There's something very important that you need to keep in mind:

    What women say they want, and what they actually choose are frequently two very different things.

    (sorry, ladies)
     
  19. Bluesy

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    Oh, me too, me too. That couple you saw, Thorn, probably just looked uncannily similar to Kronnie and me. After all, we wouldn't be fucking in the stairwell, the hallway, up against the room door, and, er, well, I'm just guessing that that's what this lookalike couple were doing...which Kronnie and I would never, ever, not in a million years, do :uhh: *ahem*

    Oh, sure, but not because of his looks, or the size of his dick. #2 has "player" written all over him. #1 seems like the kind of guy who has some standards and wouldn't go around fucking anything in a skirt.
     
  20. Bluesy

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    Oh, Clark. You obviously didn't read the article I posted in the "ladies, are you self-critical?" thread. Men are the ones who say they want a woman with yada, yada, yada, and then go for looks alone :p. Men! Pah, read on:

    Men want hot women, study confirms

    * Story Highlights
    * Dating study: Men base their decisions mostly on physical attractiveness
    * Men are much less choosy than women
    * Women are aware of the importance of their own attractiveness to men

    WASHINGTON (AP) -- Science is confirming what most women know: When given the choice for a mate, men go for good looks.

    In the dating game, men know what they want.

    And guys won't be surprised to learn that women are much choosier about partners than they are.

    "Just because people say they're looking for a particular set of characteristics in a mate, someone like themselves, doesn't mean that is what they'll end up choosing," Peter M. Todd, of the cognitive science program at Indiana University, Bloomington, said in a telephone interview.

    Researchers led by Todd report in Tuesday's edition of Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences that their study found humans were similar to most other mammals, "following Darwin's principle of choosy females and competitive males, even if humans say something different."

    Their study involved 26 men and 20 women in Munich, Germany.

    Participants ranged in age from 26 to their early 40s and took part in "speed dating," short meetings of three to seven minutes in which people chat, then move on to meet another dater. Afterward, participants check off the people they'd like to meet again, and dates can be arranged between pairs who select one another.

    Speed dating let researchers look at a lot of mate choices in a short time, Todd said.

    In the study, participants were asked before the session to fill out a questionnaire about what they were looking for in a mate, listing such categories as wealth and status, family commitment, physical appearance, healthiness and attractiveness.

    After the session, the researchers compared what the participants said they were looking for with the people they actually chose to ask for another date.

    Men's choices did not reflect their stated preferences, the researchers concluded. Instead, men appeared to base their decisions mostly on the women's physical attractiveness.

    The men also appeared to be much less choosy. Men tended to select nearly every woman above a certain minimum attractiveness threshold, Todd said.

    Women's actual choices, like men's, did not reflect their stated preferences, but they made more discriminating choices, the researchers found.

    The scientists said women were aware of the importance of their own attractiveness to men, and adjusted their expectations to select the more desirable guys.

    "Women made offers to men who had overall qualities that were on a par with the women's self-rated attractiveness. They didn't greatly overshoot their attractiveness," Todd said, "because part of the goal for women is to choose men who would stay with them"

    But, he added, "they didn't go lower. They knew what they could get and aimed for that level."

    So, it turns out, the women's attractiveness influenced the choices of the men and the women.

    Copyright 2007 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.