Every once in a while I will be with a group of friends and you will hear a girl sometimes ask her friend if the sex was good with who ever they hooked up with last night. I have always wondered what is the definition of " good " to a girl? I know sex is personal preference and good to you might be bad to someone else but for the most part in general when you have sex with a guy for the first time and you are rating him what are you hoping he will do and what is he doing that you don't like? I am more of a passionate lover and like to move slower with a lot of 4play and then slowly getting into sex with slow deep thrusts and a lot of touching kissing and sucking on her while we are having sex. I feel like the way most girls talk now days they want you to fuck the shit out of them hard and fast and do it how you would see on porn. I have always been a little nervous to have sex for the first time with a new girl because I feel like if she wants it hard and rough then my slow intimate approach is going to turn her off. Like I said I know some girls like it different then others but what would you think the majority of women look for in good sex?