[Ask a Girl] Girls. What is good sex?

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  1. idk

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    Every once in a while I will be with a group of friends and you will hear a girl sometimes ask her friend if the sex was good with who ever they hooked up with last night. I have always wondered what is the definition of " good " to a girl?

    I know sex is personal preference and good to you might be bad to someone else but for the most part in general when you have sex with a guy for the first time and you are rating him what are you hoping he will do and what is he doing that you don't like?

    I am more of a passionate lover and like to move slower with a lot of 4play and then slowly getting into sex with slow deep thrusts and a lot of touching kissing and sucking on her while we are having sex. I feel like the way most girls talk now days they want you to fuck the shit out of them hard and fast and do it how you would see on porn. I have always been a little nervous to have sex for the first time with a new girl because I feel like if she wants it hard and rough then my slow intimate approach is going to turn her off.

    Like I said I know some girls like it different then others but what would you think the majority of women look for in good sex?
     
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    Better you conduct a poll and ask the ladies to answer. Options may be:

    (a) You are dominating and like rough sex.
    (b) You are submissive and like rough sex.
    (c) You are dominating but like passionate sex.
    (d) You are submissive and like passionate sex.
    (e) You like normal passionate sex.

    As far as my personal choice goes it is (a). I want to fuck the shit out of my male partner's face & mouth.
     
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    you are 'normal' ? What's normal?
     
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    Ultimately all people subconsciously look for a connection of sexual energies, despite what their fetishes and paraphilias are, naturally our kundalini sexual energy attracts and bonds. If the person is on the same frequency as you, it will be good sex.
    What girls consider good sex... it's whatever their preference is.
    Do you really rate your sexual partner, or are you too busy getting off, or even having your own insecurities? I know a lot of people have their own insecurities - for me though, i'm way too busy being horny to worry about anything.
    No, chances are someone who's getting off won't even mind if you "make a mistake".
    When I'm having sex with anyone, I even find their quirks and mistakes as hot, besides, it's not like it's some serious classroom study, it's even hot to laugh about those things and use it to get off more.
    This one time my sexual partner was attempting to playfully rape me and dominate me in bed, and he was having issues trying to "get it in", not to mention I was really tight as well so it made it more difficult. But I liked it - I didn't help him, I just watched him trying. Yeah I could see he was starting to get self conscious about it, he even kept apologizing to me, he was so cute. I just made light of it, and told him I was not going to help him, had fun with it, kept teasing him, it relaxed him and he ended up getting off on it too and said "when you least expect it." And then really, he just gave up lay down and demanded me to get on his dick, ran out of patience and started begging me, and THAT was hot! That's a fond memory.
    I don't ever recall having any sex that was awkward, it's really easy to just get off on everything.