[Ask a Girl] Girls... what do u do if a stranger touches u?

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  1. pronto

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    let's say in subway once there're plenty of ppl or in the bus?
    like it's kinda unintentionally, but u know it's not
     
  2. shashtzoh

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    Touches my butt or breasts? Is that what you mean? I would probably go a bit crazy and beat him up. Now I am 5-8 and in good shape so maybe I am overestimating my own toughness but I grew up pretty near the hood. I think I would kick his ass.
     
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    I use raise hell and make sure everyone within screaming distance knows what an asshole he is.
     
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    Interesting question. Someone at work grabbed/squeezed my arm yesterday and commented how strong my muscles were. I was in a long sleeve sweater - not showing any arm. It was strange. I kind of kept my distance after that. If it was anything else, yeah HR would have known.

    On a subway, I'd prob start screaming.
     
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    I'm a dude but here's my opinion. A guy who does something like what's been described here is creep and a douchebag.
    If you get thrills by groping a woman you dont know, 1. You need your ass beat. 2. After you get your ass beat seek therapy.
    Don't do shit like this. No man has the fucking right to touch a woman without consent. See how all the ladies responded? It's not welcomed. And if you do it anyway---see number 1.
     
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    I read OP as if this happened to someone he knew, not something he was considering.

    If OP is considering this, I hope you get your ass kicked on the train, convicted of rape and your ass kicked in jail.
     
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    Is this guy checking out what might happen before he tries it?????
     
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    i have older guys rub against my ass when i wear gym shorts, or one brushed my nipples that were poking thru my tshirt. so its ok, no harm
     
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    I have had this happen in crowded situations a couple of times. The first time I just moved out of reach. The second time, however, I pulled a surprise conversation on the guy. I turned around and told him if he wanted to introduce himself all he would have to do is say hi first. I said it in such a way that he would not know yet what a creeper I thought he was. Then I asked him why he did what he did. I believe I started out with "why on earth would you...."? The thing about questions is that they can make a statement and leave the person (hopefully) examining their behavior.

    I had an old lady touch me in a college bar when I was in college. It was weird. I was at the bar buying a drink, and then before too long she was standing next to me stroking my arm. I just pulled it away and ignored her because I think it was probably a matter of mental illness.
     
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    I have been touched quite a few times normal by old ladies touching my head/hair apparently its lucky to touch a ginger haired person.....I wish it were the case with the under 50's lol
     
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    See why I never take public transportation. :)
     
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    A stranger touches me inappropriately he/she will be going to the dentist for some dentures after I knock their teeth down their damn throat.
     
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    So what you are basically saying/admitting is that - you're touched
     
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    Not much I can add to this.
    EXCEPT ITS WRONG WRONG WRONG.
    Every action has a reaction, and this type of action will result in medical bills.
    Anyone touches my Fiance without her wanting them to, im kicking their sick ass into touch.
     
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    I've been touched by females.....but I liked it!
    Same from males and reacted just like ED and luvbug :mad:
     
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    I would NEVER intentionally touch a female inappropriately. When I go to the doctor a lot of times I hold my arm out and the nurse straps a blood pressure cuff on and holds my arm against her breasts to take my blood pressure and I'm slightly uncomfortable with her doing that. First, my B.P. probably rises 20 points and second, I'm enjoying something that she doesn't intend. :) Unwelcome advances (touching inappropriately) and acting as if though they are "accidents" is just not only creepy but unmanly (or certainly not being a gentleman), in my opinion anyway.
     
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    not blatant butt or breast touching , but it's like gently passing by your butt and kinda accidentaly touching it
     
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    Still utterly wrong, and you would still get to pay medical bills.
     
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    Keep your effing hands to yourself (unless invited to do otherwise)!!!!!


    On a lighter note........ If you don't want exploring hands.........DON"T WEAR A KILT TO A CONCERT:eek::D (down in the masses)
     
  20. shashtzoh

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    With his hand? Still off what I can tolerate. If it was totally accidental, then no problem. We get jostled in like airplane aisles and elevators and even the streets in NYC all the time and there is accidental contact.