Girls on top

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  1. emsemtb

    emsemtb New Member

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    Ok......for the first time, I am even stumped by what is happening between me and my girl. First off, the back story, we were sitting on our couch watching a movie, and the mood hits us both, but I think it was more due to the fact that she was, and still is wearing some very fucking sexy stockings and rubbing her legs and feet on me......-drool-.......sorry, I digress. When the mood hits, I pull her into my lap and we try to have sex on the couch and she then stops and tells me that her being on top is hurting her, internally. This apparently is not the first time this has happened to her. She relates that it makes her feel like a virgin again, I am assuming that the pain type and level are the same. I want to figure this out, not only because I don't want to all the work all the time, but because this truly stumps the both of us, and I REALLY hate when I am stumped......help please......thanks in advance.
     
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    Well, what kind of hurt? Is she bottoming out on you because she's getting too into it, or is it a painful friction along the sides or what? Need more details.
     
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    Don't think she is bottoming out and there is plenty of lube, so it is pleasurable friction, at least by what she says. I will get her on here so she can describe it in her own words.
     
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    I sometimes get pain internally from being on top too but a change in angle usually fixes it. It would probably be more comfortable on a bed rather than the couch as there would be more space for repositioning legs and so on.
     
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    I dont ever get the chance to "get into it" because it hurts so much, the pain is like the first time i got fucked, i honestly dont know how to describe it any better than that. Its not a friction thing, nor is it an angle thing, I honestly dont know what the issue is.

    ~emsemtb's girl
     
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    i had that for a while....are there any other positions that leave you feeling hurt?
    i used to be in a lot of pain whilst on top, then again, it didnt hurt when i lost my virginity, so im not sure if it was similar to your pain....

    mine eventualy went away, but i still get it everynow n then and have to stop and/or kick someone off..
     
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    Patient: "doc it hurts when I do this"

    Doctor: "don't do that"

    Over the years there have been times my wife felt pain one way or another so we just changed things up. There are a thousand different positions when you count each variation of the standards. It shouldn't be too hard to find an alternative. If it is then she should check with her doctor. Painful intercourse can be a symptom of some gynecolgical conditions.
     
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    Hi Babydoll, nice to meet you. Thanks for joining. We've been putting up with the EMS guy for a couple of years now.:)
     
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    My favourite position is me being on top but the guys I have done it with don't seem to like it that much as they say they can't feel as much. I haven't experienced any pain though.
     
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    Have you tried sitting up straight in cowgirl position, grinding in circles as you go up and down and reaching behind yourself to fondle his balls. That was a favorite with my wife. It felt so good to me that I can't imagine a guy not liking it. He also gets to fondle your breasts and even sit up and suck on them. Your other hand are free to guide your breasts into his mouth
     
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    Sinner has a good point. If the pain is not due to him hitting your cervix, and if you are sufficiently wet or lubed up you may need to see a doc to determine the cause of pain.
     
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    Tried lots of stuff but I've not had many sexual partners really so maybe the next lucky guy will enjoy it more :)
     
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    Lucky is exactly what he will be.
     
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    Thanks sinner, I have all ready thought of this, maybe you didnt read my user name? I am a MEDIC!
     
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    HA!!! Thanks HR! :lol
     
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    I noticed from the username and avatar. But I work with physicians and my experience is that they make the worst patients. Not sure if that applies to emt's especially when the condition isn't acute. Anyway good luck. I hope she's ok. And I hope you guys fin some good positions you can both enjoy. Think of this as a good excuse to Experiment.
     
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    You work with Docs......but are not one.....and thanks sinner, we are as kinky as they come......LOL
     
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    Not trying to downplay you or what you know, but last I checked, EMT/Medic != Doctor, and most definitely EMT/Medic != OB/GYN. A specialist on the female anatomy is going to know a lot more about it than you are, and absent any obvious reasons for pain (plenty of self lube, not hitting cervix), will be much more likely than you to figure out what the issue is.

    In the immortal words of another group of people I am fond of "Go See A Doctor You Fucking Tool!" :D
     
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    Thanks Red. I was only trying to point out that I think it it funny that someone who just works with Docs is attempting to give medical advice to a couple with a medical professional as half the couple. And to mimic those immortal words, we are already going to "Go see a doctor" cause I am only the tool...LOL
     
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    So don't see a doctor. Its her uterus she can do what she wants. And... What Tex said.