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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by the_traveler, Dec 28, 2010.
what's a bj?
I think he wants to know how we girls reacted when we first found out what a bj was? Am I right?
ah, yea, that' exactly what i said? what was mis-understood?
i'm simply curoius, as i see so much of it in real porn, and folks talk so much about it, yet to the casual observer (namely me) it seems so un-natrual, degrating, and perhaps un-acceptable for a girl to do.
so i'm wondering, why , and what made you do it (if you did).
I honestly can't recall when I learned what a blowjob was, however it just seemed...natural to me to want to do everything I could to please my guy(s). Naturally I wanted to touch and tease, kiss and lick ect. It wasn't disgusting or degrading as I did it all by choice.
I do not however do it like they do in porn. I DO find that disgusting. All the drool and sometimes vomit it's just...bleh. I prefer clean bj's.
I remember clearly. Was during the filming of The Outsiders in Tulsa and was hanging with the cast quite a bit. One day Thomas C. Howell's "person" brought in bright yellow buttons that read DO YOU SWOLLOW I was bewildered until a girl I was hanging out with told me. I have some wild stories about those times !!!
My friend told me about it then showed me a video online. I think I was like 14 or so. I kind of wanted to try it. When I did it for the first time I loved it and was hooked.
14, and you don't you were too young to watch it , or get corrupted ?
I was curious. And we had the internet. Kids today are being corrupted at like 8. The video I watched was pretty much 'just to know what it was'. Because I figured if I was old enough to know what it was, then I was old enough to REALLY know what it was.
And on second though, I was 15, because I was a freshman. I had heard of blowjobs, but I really didn't know much more than I thought you had to blow on it. Now I'm much more educated; and totally uncorrupted.
Yeah,I agree with Swgirl,kids are being corrupted early these days! I think I was in middle school and a boy brought a porno magazine to the bus stop.Of course we all had to look at it.
Then in high school I gave my first blow job to the guy who took my virginity...I didn't find it degrading at all,in fact I really liked it.
I had no idea about the whole "spit or swallow" thing yet though,and unfortunately,I didn't do either I just tried to get out of the way and he came all in my hair,all over the place,LOL...
Thank God my parents weren't home when I got back!
One of my first boyfriends told me how to do it for the first time and it was a really hot experience. He talked me through it with a soft, sultry voice and I really enjoyed it. The more I did it, the more I loved it, especially as I saw the effect it had
Why do you think it's unnatural? It is completely natural to kiss and nuzzle and lick. There is nothing unnatural about sex and I think that it is just as much a part of sex as kissing is.
The same goes for degrading. Why should anyone find it degrading? What does degrade mean? "To lower in value or social position; To reduce in quality or purity." How does kissing, licking and sucking a man's body do that?
It's a fun and exciting thing to do, just like any other sexual activity
flame- i recall learning that kissing is a social teaching not an instinct. There are a few tribes that don't kiss and one literally touches noses as a kiss! Strange indeed!
I can't recall when i first found out, but i thought it was disgusting and swore i would NEVER EVER do it.
Then my boyfriend pressured me into it and i gave in like a lot of girls do, haha. It wasn't fun for me...and i kinda would do it to try to get him to react, but he never made much of a reaction.
The bf i currently have, reacts. And i get in the mood to do it sometimes, more in the completely selfless mood. And i don't LOVE it, but when the mood calls i think it's really nice, and fair, to give him some pleasure. I still kinda think it's a bit gross...but if everyone is being hygienic it's more my strict religious upbringing. Apparently i'm going to hell anyway. *rolls eyes*
I agree with Godiva - . And i get in the mood to do it sometimes, more in the completely selfless mood. And i don't LOVE it, but when the mood calls i think it's really nice, and fair, to give him some pleasure. I still kinda think it's a bit gross...but if everyone is being hygienic it's more my strict religious upbringing.
I have found it to be more enjoyable(less gross) for me when using a dildo on myself at the same time, not real sure if it's because my "mind" is elsewhere...
I knew what it was in my early teens but didn't see the appeal til my mid teens, then I loved it!
I, conversely, LOVE to give my man blow jobs. It's my favorite sexual position. It makes me feel incredibly sexy, and like I'm a good woman to him. I've also experienced orgasm from it on more than a couple of occasions. My yoga instructor told me it has something to do with the 5th chakra and that a lot of women derive physical pleasure from giving oral sex.