Girls are sluts -- And I hate it

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  1. originaldankstr

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    Why are all girls so slutty? And why do I care so much... fucking me and other ppl is better than not fucking me at all, isn't it?
     
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    It's never fair to generalize, dankstr. That's the same thing as saying, "All men are assholes." I've met a fair few who fit the criteria, so I could easily fall into the mind trap of believing that there are no decent guys out there whatsoever. If you've had a few bad experiences, it's because you're barking up the wrong trees, darling.

    Personally, I have such high standards that I want very desperately to get laid at the moment but won't consider it until I find a worthwhile guy. If it takes me a couple more years or so to find a really good guy I can trust and, therefore, feel confident sharing myself with, so be it. That's hardly slutty, is it? I know a lot of women who feel the same way, and I knew plenty of young ladies your age back in the day who also felt that way.

    Though it sounds to me like perhaps you're pissed off because you're interested in a girl who gets around and she isn't interested in you. Is there any truth in that?
     
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    Almsot true. She's over the top in love with me. I'm pretty interested in her, but she gets arround alot. I guess I want to persue a relationship with her, but I don't want to because then I'll probably just worry more about her getting with other guys.

    I don't really know what to do, but I do enjoy how she'll fuck/give me head anytime.

    I Kinda figured fucking someone becides her would make me not care as much, but it just made things worse, becasue it seems all girls are sluts.
     
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    Hey .. I resent being called that!!!

    Get it right Ok ... It's ... "Bad and Slutty" .. *LMAO*!!!

    And why do we do what we do? ... Is cause we loooove too!!

    Hope i answered your question .. "Try and have a nice day"! ~grin~
     
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    So in other words you love the fact that she will do all kinds of things for you at the drop of a hat, but you don't like that it's because she's a girl who is sexually free. You wanted her because of who she is, and now that you actually care about her, you no longer want her to be the girl you knew all along that she is. You can't have your cake and eat it too, sweetie. You knew what you were getting into and she's not to blame for that. But just because she has a very liberal attitude towards sex, it doesn't necessarily mean she couldn't be satisfied with one guy...unless there are other details to this story you haven't shared.
     
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    It's not just this girl though, it's all girls I've ever met. I know I'm 18 and all, but I'd like to have a girl I can really care for, and she'd feel the same way. For a few weeks/months or so.

    Your totaly right though. Thanks
     
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    Well, I'll tell you what. The kind of woman you're looking for isn't going to be attracted to guys who will gladly accept head from just about anyone. Women who are picky want guys who are picky, and that shows in your personality and attitude towards women. So you might want to think about the kinds of signals you're putting out.

    I hope you find the kind of woman you're looking for.
     
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    Ahhhh to be young and naive. Most girls that age don't know what they want and have the attention span of a chipmunk on Cocaine. Don't expect much of a relationship commitment when you're young.

    Granted you'll find some people that can seem to make things work from an early start, but they are few and far between.

    "The perfect woman is one that loves you and can be a lady in public and a whore in bed." ;)
     
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    'Scuse me, I take exception to the phrase "whore in bed" :mad A true lady would never deign to act like a prostitute...she would be "sexually liberated", yet dignified. A prostitute will turn whatever trick you ask of her, no questions asked.
     
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    Oh Geez, now you know the sentiment I was going for. And trust me, I give more than I take. "Sexually liberated" HA. Your political correctness. C'mon Bluesy, you know exactly what I mean. Would you be more at ease if I used the term "Licentious" for the perfect woman, ie. One not bound by typical constraints.
     
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    Naaaaaaaoooooooh...licentious is "sexually immoral", and what is that supposed to mean, anyway? I can't get my head around it; it sounds too sleazy. Now if you said "a wildcat in bed" or a "nymphomaniac" or even a "sex-crazed lust bunny", that would be cool. And if by "typical" constraints you mean "Puritanical". I can't imagine what qualifies as atypical since there aren't any taboos in the bedroom anymore.
     
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    *sigh* you're missing the spirit of the message.

    You want a girl that can be graceful and proper when it's called for, and a complete "sex-crazed lust bunny" (as you say) in bed.

    There! :p
     
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    I think I'll use that, "sex-crazed lust bunny" as my title when April rolls around...

    Don't you think guys want different things in bed? I mean, perhaps guys have different preferences? Maybe there are guys who want women who like to pretend they're porn stars in bed, and maybe there are guys who want a subtler, more sensual woman...?
     
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    I like that one.And it is true!
    The whole thing is,there's a difference between girls and women(well,usually anyways:p )
    ...Find a woman,one who's mature,respectful AND uninhibited.
     
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    First, if she was really "over-the-top" in love with you, she wouldn't be seeing anyone else and you wouldn't be worried about it. Second, fucking someone else on the side shows her that you aren't seriously interested in her either.
    :finger

    Then you aren't frequenting the right places. Parties, clubs and bars might not be the best place to look for Miss Right.

    But seriously, don't lose hope. There are a few great women on the planet and you're bound to meet one sooner or later. Good luck! :)
     
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    In addition to you ladies being hot babes, you have wonderful minds, too! As for our friend above, I think that he probably ought to be looking for a girl friend at church or temple socials (depending on his faith) and not looking in bars, etc. A number of years ago, while still single, I was in his situation at one point. I had to let the lady go because I just was not able to handle the situation. Wherever she is now, I hope that she's happy. Anyway, I would advise him to just gently let go and look elsewhere.
     
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    im really not attached to her. I've partialy accepted the fact that all girls are sluts, and I'd still rather be with them than not.

    Lol, find girls in a church, tha'ts a joke. First girl I fucked was in CCD (church school kinda thing). And since (this was 8th grade) she's probably fucked 10 other guys (12th now). Sluts... all of them.
     
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    You say "slut" like it's a bad thing. Strip it down to the bare bones and all it means is a person who has a lot of sex with lots of different people. Can you provide statistical proof that all girls, or even most, have lots of sex with lots of different people? I did not think so. And why are you taking the moral high ground here? Haven't you had just as varied a sex life? Haven't you had sex with women (and girls) who are just as sexually liberal as you are? What is it that makes you better than them?

    You're very angry, btw. If you take that attitude with you into your dating life, you're going to scare off most women, you know.
     
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    Being that you are only 18...how many have you fucked? If its a high number, perhaps the girls in your area think that YOU are the whore and slut! And you are enshrined with an all he wants is sex reputation!:phat
     
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    Well, sorry! I don't know where you live however, where I grew up and where I live now, church and temple going girls are usually not sexually active at least, so I have heard. Guess I was raised in a much different environment.
     
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