Girls and Vibraters

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by hurley, Jul 8, 2004.

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  1. hurley

    hurley New Member

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    Are there any girls out there where when they first experience a vibrater, they got kinda addicted to it and used it quiet often and it kind of took over the job of your bf/ hubby?
     
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    I've never chosen my vib over my BF or FB. It was always something we both enjoyed using together, but now that I'm single it's my primary source for orgasms.
     
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    I'm in the single boat too. If you're feeling left out, maybe you can ask your gf if you can use it together?
     
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    Thx for the replays. Iv thought about getting my gf one, but then she joked around about how it could take my place so it made me thing and wonder.
     
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    Nah, a vibrator's not going to replace a boyfriend/husband. Sure sometimes the vibrator can be more reliable for the orgasm, but we don't get the emotional connection to it that we get w/men. And there's none of the touching, kissing w/a vibrator that we get w/men.
     
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    ^^^ I got jealous one time of a vibrator I bought for my gf. If the girl had said what you just said it would of squashed it immediately. Well said.
     
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    there are actualy some women who have a emotional connection with there viberators.. Some have even named there viberators like Rod,jack, Conan, Blackie and the ever so famous Bob. Simluar to how men have emotion attachment to there cars cause it gets them where they want to go and gets the job done. Same goes with women and viberators. lol
     
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    Love my vibrator!

    I use my vibrator all the time! Daily! Love to orgasimn! But still need a man to! Sometimes having both at the same time is great!
     
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    Me n my vibrator. i use it when i have to. usually my bf can take care of all my needs, so.. i normally use it to get myself wet, which eventually after i accomplished that, well.. u kno wut eventually happens between me n my bf
     
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    Damn I love pounding her pussy after she gets wet from that thing. Either on the bed, on the couch and sometimes in the car
     
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    my question is are you a bf using a vibrator, or gf?

    Well i am a guy who occasionally uses one. it's basically based on fantasy, likes, and the single factor and not having a gf to replace that role.

    I would make it a together thing if your considering getting her one. They can get pretty addicting!
     
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    So you get jealous of a vibrator? Does any woman get jealous of a mans hand then? A vibrator is just the best way to spice things up and it looks so sexy. I couldn't be in a rationship which didn't have a vibrator. Let a woman have some pleasure and stop thinking about yourselves.
     
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    My boyfriend actually likes to watch me use my vibrator on myself and has no problem when I use it without him.

    I still prefer having sex than using it - there's more emotion there when you have someone else in your arms.
     
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    I don't own a vibe; not to say I am never curious, but as a girl that has great vaginal O's during sex, I'm scared I'll lose my sensitivity. So, no vibe for me, my choice.....but a non vibrating toy? Sure.....lol.......why not?
    ~Lucy
     
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    My girlfriend the other day lightly suggested that she might enjoy me buying her a vibrator, but I am curious on how to introduce it to our sex life. She was very conservative sexually when I met her, but now she enjoys sex in all kind of ways, oral, anal, and loves to watch me masturbate. Gets off by watching porn with me and has a thing for Jenna Jamason. She is about the best sexual fantasy I could think of, so I do not complain. My one issue with her is that she does not seek for orgasms, some kind of hang up. She refuses to touch herself and will only let me for a short while. Also, we just had a baby 4 months ago and she is self-conscious about her body, so with the suggestion of introducing a vibrator I feel that there could be a breakthrough on her issues of orgasms. I have been hoping that at some point she could enjoy orgasms as much as I do, for we have sex daily.

    So, if anyone could give me ideas on how to introduce vibrators into our sex life without turning her off, I would greatly appriciate it.
     
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    that sounds like a situation that i would so make sure of. I mean thats crazy that a girl doesn't want to orgasm CRAZY!:eek: she needs to relax and finally get it going!
     
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    When my mom baught me my first vibrator I was addicted to the thing, still am (and now I have more!!!YAY!!!) I named all of them and use them alot but they would never take the place of my bf, sure I've had them longer than I've known him but there is so much more emotional going on with him. (even though I do have a huge attatchment to my toys) As long as a women knows the differences and benifits of both life is good for all!!!
     
  18. Thorn

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    Maggie_05, your mom bought you a vibrator? :eek Cool mom!

    I think (& hope :eyes ) my wife would say, like so many here, that her's don't take the place of the real deal. But the other day she asked me to watch and touch some while she used one. It took about 10 - 12 minutes and when she came it was like wild for her. I know she went crazy for 4 minutes intensely and another minute or so coming down. I'd like to think I helped some with the touching and stuff. :uhh:
     
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    I totally love my vibrators! I am addicted and use them every afternoon if I have the house to myself (meaning no children around LOL). I also like using it while having sex with my bf, and have been asked to use it while he watches. Just makes it all the hotter.

    But no, my vibes could never take the place of my bf. While I love the orgasms I get from them, some how I feel more satisfied with my bf. If that makes any sense...
     
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    my bf and his ex stopped being intimiate, she would go into their bedroom and lock the door.... now, and i understand why, he doesn't really want me to get a vibe
     
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