Girlfriend's problem during sex?

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  1. Ggordonn

    Ggordonn New Member

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    First off, this is the first girl I've been with(and I'm the first guy she's been with), so I'm not sure if this is normal or not. Whenever we're having sex, and she seems to be getting really into it, all of the sudden she says she has to go pee. Every single time. And afterward that always just takes me out of the mood. Anybody know why this is happening? Is it her problem? Mine? What?
     
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    melicious The Old Maid
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    Try bringing her to orgasm manually, with fingers, tongue, and/or toys. Encourage her to relax, and that no matter what she does, even if she were to pee (and she won't) nothing will turn you off. Having an orgasm often feels, to the newly sexual being, similar to the urge to urinate. She needs to work through it once, allow her body to react the way it wishes to, and realize that it is not that she is needing to pee, but that she is nearing orgasm. It's a very common fear, and it's why we must engage in our early sexual experiences with someone we trust. Let her know that you want to enjoy this journey with her, allow her to trust you.
     
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    I couldn't have said it better. :tup
     
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    Mel has it right.
    You said every time. So that is the only thing I can think of
    Have you asked if she did pee. I'm betting the answer is no.
    So the next time tell her to go ahead and pee.
     
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