for my girlfriend to get off, she seems to require stimulation of her breasts. when she used to masturbate on her own, without stimulation, it would take a somewhat long amount of time. as a result, she hasn't really been masturbating on her own, we would just have sex and afterwards she would touch herself and i would suck on her breasts. the orgasms are more intense and quicker for her. this is generally the only way we can get her to orgasm, if i go down her, she can't stimulate her breasts as much as me sucking and massaging them, and it takes forever. and she'd rather just have me work on her breasts while she does her thing. also, when i watch her masturbate, there is no pattern at all. at times she goes real fast, other times slow, and sometimes completely stops for several seconds. when she's tried to show me how to do it, i never really get her to orgasm because of the randomness. am i SOL for being more than a breast massager, has anyone heard of this, or what?